It’s hard to say; lover is a comrade? Yes and no; brothers and sisters? You can also say that... In fact, even they themselves are not so clear about their relationship. It seems that he can't live without her and she can't live without him, but in fact, each has its own sunshine, air and moisture...

One of the ambiguous relationships: brother and sister (sister and brother)

Ambiguity index: ****

Innocence index: ***

Signboard slogan: "So-and-so is my brother, we are relatives." "She is 10 years younger than me, little sister..."

Classic lens:

1. Every day at noon, a young woman would appear at the front desk of his company, smiling and carrying a few lunch boxes, and said: "Brother... how do you like the egg fried rice I made today?" Then she smiled and said Watch him finish eating, then help him clean up, not forgetting to carefully wipe off the rice grains on his chin. He said distressedly: "I really don't know what's going on in your little head!"

2. At the party, there were so many beauties around him, the buddies teased each other, and it’s not surprising that they often eat tofu. However, someone told her a dirty joke, which made her blush. He immediately stood on his head and lectured the other person: "You can't bully her, she is my sister."

3. She dresses fashionably, but there is often a young man beside her who sweetly calls her sister. In fact, they are not related by blood at all. When crossing the road, she would hold his hand tightly, and when eating, she would specially give him a chopstick dish. Many men who pursued her would easily suffer her eyes. Only this little "brother" sometimes looked like He protects his "sister" like an adult, but sometimes he becomes a little naughty person who makes his "sister" laugh or cry.

Relationship analysis:

For the "brother", the meaning of the little sister's existence is to make him have the desire to protect her. When the heroism in the man needs to be poured out, when he feels helpless and lonely, the "little sister"'s well-behaved and kind Weakness often makes him feel more comfortable than ordinary tenderness and considerateness, and her admiration for him makes him feel extra confident, which just satisfies a man's certain desire for spiritual conquest. For "sister", what she wants is very simple - to be loved and protected.

For "sister", before she has a perfect boyfriend, "brother" is a very considerate little follower. He has the dual benefits of a man and a boy. He will not deliberately get in trouble with her. When she is in trouble, he will She will not betray her oath, and when her motherly nature comes out, he becomes a cute and innocent "little thing". For the "younger brother", the "sister" is often a woman who is trustworthy and full of feminine charm.

Potential crisis:

In real life, most "family" relationships are often difficult to evolve into real love relationships. In this type of relationship, there are mostly elements of pity and love, with little common language, let alone equal experience. Moreover, the feelings between "younger siblings" and "older siblings" are often more heavy and complex, and very complex. It is easy to fall into it and find it difficult to extricate yourself. Once the "ambiguity" is excessive, and once the "older brother and sister" have a lover, the "younger brother and sister" will inevitably become a stumbling block.

Ambiguous relationship two: beauty and beauty

Ambiguity index: *****

Innocence Index:*

Signboard slogan: "A woman's heart and body can be separated. There is only one pure word between us." "There is no pure friendship between men and women? That's just because you haven't found a confidante." "He is my soul." As close friends, we understand each other but never possess each other."

Classic lens:

1. Every time after a quarrel with his wife, he would rush out of the door and run to her house to cry. Afterwards, he would say: "Why is it not you who I love? Why can't my wife be as considerate as you?" She replied: "If your wife can do what I do, she will not be your wife."

2. After being criticized by her boss, she was very puzzled. Her girlfriend refused to invite her to go shopping to relax. She insisted on calling him to complain bitterly. He analyzed cases and principles of life for her until she became cheerful again. . When she encounters some major choices, she will also consult with him, and she feels that they have a common language. She said: "My boyfriend understands my body best, and you are my confidant who understands my thoughts best."

Relationship analysis:

When they are depressed or encounter various problems in life, they become fish that "help each other". Once the sea water returns, they swim away separately. Even if both parties have lovers, some private and intimate conversations are only spoken to the "girlfriend". To a certain extent, this kind of relationship between men and women is mostly love that stays on the spiritual level. It can also be said that compared with the relationship between lovers, they only lack physical communication.

Potential crisis:

Even the most innocent confidante can easily be misunderstood as a third party if one of the lovers is not open-minded and sensible enough. Secondly, after all, they are a man and a woman. Once "drinking with a bosom friend is a thousand cups too short", one becomes overly affectionate. It is inevitable to "take off your clothes and take off your belt", and once the last line of defense is broken, it will be difficult to continue the "confidant" relationship.

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Ambiguous relationship three: Internet lover

Ambiguous index: *****

Innocence index:**

Signature slogan: "I love you, even if I never see you. I can feel everything about you, I can't see you, that's not a problem." "We love each other in the world of bits, and this love cannot survive without the Internet. ”

Classic lens:

1. He goes home every day to eat the food cooked by his wife. Then while she was washing in the kitchen, she heard the sound of typing on the keyboard from the room. The woman who doesn't have to take care of his life and everything is sharing her husband's feelings with peace of mind on the other side of the Internet. And she is still quietly guarding the soulless body of the man she married.

2. "My dear, I'm sending you 999 roses." "Really?" An email with a picture of roses arrived in her mailbox. "Let me kiss you..." "Well, I feel it, your soft and moist lips..." "Well, I brushed your teeth specially."

Relationship analysis:

They "fall in love" online and even hold a wedding. They are two strangers who have never met. The word game is the source of mutual dependence and interest. They are addicted to it, and the Internet makes them look "perfect." Different from ordinary online dating, most of these online lovers will not meet each other, but rely on their imagination of each other to create various romantic atmospheres and assumptions. Unlike love in real life, the cost of online love is very low and there is no need to bear moral pressure.

Potential crisis:

Because what they love each other is just their own imagination and the maze created by words. So if, if we meet, the consequences are hard to imagine. Forget about the beautiful dinosaur, if you find that the one opposite is...

Ambiguous relationship four: opposite sex living together

Ambiguity index: ***

Innocence index: ***

Signboard slogan: "Living alone is too heavy a burden, and I'm afraid of the dark. It's easier to take care of me if I have a boy." "Her importance is reflected every month when I don't know what else to eat besides instant noodles." "He The importance is reflected every time the fuse breaks and the gas tank runs out of gas..."

Classic lens:

1. He calls his room the boys’ dormitory, she calls hers the girls’ dormitory, and the rest are for public use. The sewer is broken, and even if he is addicted to the game console, he will be there at a moment's notice. It was raining heavily outside and I couldn't go out to eat. I coaxed her a little and promised to have money to treat her to a big meal. I promised that two hot dishes and one soup would be served to her in a short while.

2. There was a party to be held in the evening, and she discussed with him: "Maybe I have many friends, and I can't accommodate that many people in my house. Can you make some space for me?" He agreed and said, "I'll do it next time." Just give me something delicious. I will automatically disappear on the day of the party. When the party ends, send me a text message..."

Relationship analysis:

Compared with women and girls living together, men and women living together bring more feelings of pleasure, trust and relaxation. Just like the meaning of "matching men and women so that work is not tiring" in the office, this type of new tenant relationship is full of interest in another sense. The survey shows that most women who live in opposite-sex apartments believe that men do not care about details such as the size and orientation of the room, who uses the bathroom more or less, and the situation between women. It's much more complicated. In serious cases, it can even lead to an unhappy relationship and friends turning against each other. In real co-housing, men and women respect each other, keep a distance, and can help each other. For both parties, they can not only experience most of the advantages of the opposite sex, but also avoid the trouble of mutual suspicion, exclusivity, and preoccupation.

Potential crisis:

The house itself is already very ambiguous. Single men and women share a room. Even if it is not a room, it is very close. People who go home often return themselves to their true nature, where they are casual, free, undisciplined, and even the ugly details of life are exposed in front of each other. Although some people develop love because of their very close lifestyles, after all, they are still A distant man and woman. People of the opposite sex who share a house can easily develop into lovers, and from sharing a house to living together. However, if you seek shared housing out of temporary blindness or with the mentality of solving personal problems, you may be taken advantage of by people with ulterior motives, hurting your feelings and disrupting your life.

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Ambiguous relationship five: part-time parent (driver, bodyguard, nanny...)

Ambiguous index: ****

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Innocence Index:**

Signboard slogan: "Anyway, he has a car, so he just happened to drop me off on the way." "It is always normal for a man to invite a woman to dinner. If he is willing to invite a woman, I am willing to eat, no matter what others see!"

Classic lens:

1. He owns an Audi; he holds a high position in a big company; he has a girlfriend whom he loves. I don’t remember how I met him. In short, it seemed that since he took the initiative to send her home one night, and since he knew that their companies were on the same line, it became his habit to pick her up and drop her off every day.

2. Every time after get off work, if her boyfriend is not free, she will shout loudly in the office: "Today

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