In modern society, people are no longer so feudal and are very open to love and sex. Almost all men are not satisfied with their wives and often behave in a very rigid manner. However, the mind has other ideas. Many men want to find a lover, so what kind of ideal lovers do men have? The editor of the male sexual psychology column will reveal it to you below.

1. The unattainable

Such a person may be a star, or a beautiful woman who looks exactly like a star. Anything that touches her will only make men timid, but they are truly admired in their hearts. Such a lover is only suitable for appreciating in the heart but not daring to get. You may have wet dreams because of her, but you don't even dare to make a phone call in life.

Don't get too close to such a woman. The less you know about her, the better. The more you know, the easier it is to become a "friend", and only a friend. It's enough to fantasize in your heart. The "Platonic" relationship between lovers can look more beautiful under the beautiful light. This is the legendary "stealing is worse than not stealing".

2. Admiring one’s lover

Men must not lack a sense of accomplishment. It will be the biggest pain for men to keep looking up at other people's breath. A man hopes to have such a woman, not because of his appearance, money, career aura, or because of his eloquence, but because she will follow him willingly and wholeheartedly.

3. A lover who brings endless satisfaction and pleasure in sex

Such a woman may not be very beautiful, but she is versatile, sexy and easy to satisfy, making men feel the most masculine. In fact, it is difficult for a man to find a lover for sex. She must be charming and experienced, but she must not give people the feeling of being raped by a woman. Men really hope to have such a person who is 100% compatible with each other when it comes to sex.

4. A lover who can help you in your career (financially)

Princes in trouble often need the help of nobles, and those with unappreciated talents need career support. Even men with successful careers still desire to develop in more fields and obtain more economic benefits. In fact, this is not a Transaction, but a mutual need and reasonable utilization. In fact, what men need from such a woman is maternal care. Unweaned children really need to walk one more mile with the support of adults.

5. A lover who can enhance and satisfy his “sexual confidence”

When a man reaches a certain age, he has money and status, his wife and his old lover of many years are also tired of aesthetics, and the most important thing is that he has no self-confidence in sex. They are very conflicted in their hearts. On the one hand, they are disgusted with little girls who would rather exchange their bodies for money and status. On the other hand, they are eager to get comfort from the bodies of young women. The simpler the sexual history, the more popular they are. They don’t have to worry about whether the other party is satisfied, but they can do it themselves. Have more pleasure and a sense of accomplishment.

The above are the five most rational lovers for men introduced by the editor. I believe everyone will understand them after reading them! Female friends must pay attention to the fact that after marriage, you must take good care of your husband, love him, and care for him, only then you will have his love.