5 tips for women to manage their marriages
In the vast sea of people, it is not easy for husband and wife to stay together. They must spend a lifetime together. Many people say that marriage is the tomb of love. This cannot be generalized. In fact, whether marriage is a tomb, the most important thing depends on both husband and wife. How to operate, including the management of sex life. Today I will teach you how to bring your marriage to the end step by step.
1. Give the other party the greatest trust
Since you have given your whole future to the other person, it means that you have completely trusted him (her), so why bother thinking and wasting time on some illusory things? Many times, there is a clear distinction between water and oil, but if you insist on stirring, won't the oil slowly seep into the water and become an emulsion?
2. Give the other party enough space
Everyone desires freedom and hates being restrained. Everyone has his or her own social circle and small world. No matter who you are, even if it is the most intimate relationship, you have no right to ask him (her) to be alone for you. All contact with the outside world is lost. Just like Confucius said, don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. As long as it's normal communication, just let it go and give him (her) enough personal space. He (she) will definitely feel that you are very reasonable in his heart.
3. Outside the home, try your best to maintain the other party’s image
It is inevitable that there will be times in your life when you meet people who are proud and successful in their careers, and you will naturally feel unbalanced. But a smart person will never embarrass his or her partner by ridiculing him or her on the spot, but will try his or her best to save face for him or her. Don't say sarcastic words in private, but focus on encouragement, telling the other person what they are not doing well enough and how they should improve. I think as long as you are a motivated person, you will definitely live up to your expectations.
4. Express love to each other generously
Don't think that since you are a couple, there is no need to be as close to each other as you were when you were in love. After marriage, you should pay more attention to expressing your love for the other person, so as not to let them feel the gap before and after marriage. In fact, the other person just wants to hear that your love for him or her is still the same as before. You can give the other person a morning kiss when you get up in the morning, say "Dear, I'm going to work" when you go out, and give the other person a hug when you get home. He (she) said "I miss you so much". Go to the park or watch a movie together on the weekend, and remember to send gifts on the anniversary... I believe you will find the feeling of love again.
5. Honor each other’s parents
Marriage means the union of two families, and is no longer simply a matter of lovers. Being a husband and a wife means taking care of each other's parents together. Treat them as your biological parents, visit them often or bring them home to live for a period of time. Consider everything the elderly need, be as satisfied as possible, and compare yourself to your own. The parents you have treated well will definitely be your partner. I will cherish you more and treat your parents more kindly.