Five steps to safe sex

Step 1:

Require the other party to use condoms correctly, although 70% of Chinese people say it is acceptable not to use condoms during sex, but condoms’ dual functions of disease prevention and contraception undoubtedly make them the most highly regarded contraceptive device among professionals. In addition, about 8% of the population is allergic to latex. If you happen to fall into this category, choosing a condom made of polyurethane that can be purchased in ordinary pharmacies will be the best choice. As for using condoms correctly, that goes without saying.

Step 2:

Are you more demanding in terms of sex? Don't worry. Understanding your true sexual needs is the second step to having safe sex.

Step 3:

Choose a sexual partner who can accept your point of view: I would like to remind you that people’s sexual concepts are formed over a long period of time under the influence of living environment, educational background and other factors. Don't try to change the other person's sexual concepts, and don't impose your own sexual concepts on the other person.

Step 4:

Know whether your sexual partner is violent, unless you like SM: This simple test recommended by psychologists will help you know whether your sexual partner is violent Tendency:

Question 1. What does he do when he is angry?

Frequent threats to throw things, bang on walls, break objects, etc. are dangerous signs that he lacks self-control.

Question 2. Are his emotions polarized?

Emotional polarization is a reflection of immature personality.

Question 3. Does he come from a violent family?

Children who grow up in violent families often learn to use violence to solve problems.

Question 4. Is he trying to keep you under his control?

For example, he controls how you dress and live your life, and may even go to the extent of making you feel that you can't make decisions without him.

Step 5:

Protecting one's sexual privacy is a virtue. If you are not so desperate that you have to exchange sexual experience for money, or you really have unavoidable difficulties, protect it well and Treasure your sexual privacy. Of course, if you and your sexual partner are both highly skilled and don't care about worldly opinions, that's another matter.