Brief content: When you are with a girl of the same age, she knows the truth about all the bragging you do, she has heard the jokes you tell eight hundred times, she knows the restaurants you know better than you do, and she knows the new car you are proud of. All she cares about is whether there is a mirror to touch up her makeup. As for the little achievements you brag about, she just snorts a "tsk" out of her nose to show that she "gets it." No one would give out a heartfelt compliment like a little girl. One of the reasons is that I don’t want to find anyone of the same age

For a man in his 30s, all the girls of the same age around him are already married, and they are very familiar with them.

What should have happened has happened, and what should have been ridiculous happened a long time ago.

When you are with a girl of the same age, she will know the truth of all your boasts, she has heard the jokes you tell eight hundred times, she knows the restaurants you know better than you, and she only cares about whether there are mirrors on your new car that you are proud of. Touch up makeup, as for the little achievements you brag about, she just snorted "chi" from her nose to express "get it". No one will give out a heartfelt compliment like a little girl, "Wow! That's super cool!" "Ah, so awesome!" The women around you have already experienced it for a long time and are calm when things happen. Who will do it for you? Cheers!

Getting married is really something that you can't live without. Young men and women fall in love and get married because of this and that, and they lead each other's lives, including all kinds of unpredictable fates. For the sake of a person, completely accept all his or her experiences. Thinking about it this way, getting married is not a romantic move, but a very brave thing.

Even if you choose from thousands of choices and finally meet a girl of the same age who you can see, she may be extra serious about this relationship because of her age: dating her must have results, and she will ask you when you are dating after two weeks. Take her home? If you think the time is not right and make excuses to shirk it, hum! She will definitely think you are playing a love game with her and leave in a rage. Otherwise, if you meet a mature woman with a lot of "pasts", when you date her, you will constantly compare her with her "past" ex-boyfriends. Maybe there is someone you know among them, which will make people confused. I feel so much pressure! In this way, women of the same age really don’t want to look for them anymore, ahem.

Reason 2: Young people can’t find it

Men over 30 don't know how to play CS, don't understand Jay Chou, and don't know what "corn" and "jelly" are. But he has to be so serious when he speaks, and even interrupts indiscriminately when his sisters tell jokes that they clearly don’t understand. According to the current fashion, the little girls around him would call him "uncle". I guess he feels very good. What?

If you have a house and a car, you will definitely be loved by a woman? I’m afraid that’s not necessarily the case. The classic youth love songs of mature men are simply old-fashioned songs to girls: As soon as he sang "Mortal Song" in karaoke, the little girl over there had already classified his phone number as "Ordinary People" Group; I thought I was performing "Love Like Tides" affectionately, but the little girl here had already gone to the toilet and flushed his business card into the toilet, making him really fall in love like a tide... Oh my God, unless I can pronounce every word without missing a word. Singing the entire song "Nunchaku" by Jay Chou in one breath, all those girls who are young, good-looking, innocent, easily drunk, and inexperienced in the world will applaud with admiration. Old man, if you don’t even have the courage to step into rojamdisco, how can you call?

Reason Three: Bored, tired, seeing too much

After so many years in the world, how many opportunities have people had to love and be loved? However, since their careers have not yet been accomplished, most of them can only be tempted to endure it, or just play along. When it was time to start a family, I forgot that I was no longer a reckless young man. No matter how beautiful the scenery was, I was tired of it. I had seen too much and thought it was just that.

For men who are over 30 years old, their passion has already been exhausted in the first love they had when they were 18 years old. Originally, it might not be fruitless, but at that time, there was nothing, and the parents of the other party cut off the communication between the two in the name of their future. It’s no wonder that parents are cruel. I have just graduated from college. What can I dedicate to my lover? So these years, I have worked hard, worked hard, and worked hard to build a country. Only when I have a house and a car, I realize that I have already. It's hard to find a girl that tempts me.

It's okay if you just don't feel tempted, but you can't let it go in your heart. People around you repeatedly introduce her, and your parents repeatedly remind you, just to allow those girls who are selected from a hundred to stay by your side for two or three months. It turns out that my love is already time-sensitive. Once the set time is up, I will "cheat" involuntarily. As for the reason for breaking up, it is the most real three words - no feeling.

The fourth reason is that blind dates are so scary

Mr. Zhang, unmarried, 31 years old

Others say that I have high demands. In fact, when I take the subway to and from get off work every day, I will meet hundreds of girls who meet my requirements. But you can't just take the initiative to strike up a conversation when you meet one, right? I have to live it up. Oddly enough, when it came time to go on a blind date, each of the girls who came was less interesting than the last. Either they lacked looks, or they had rigid and boring personalities, which made people feel like they were just "picking the rest." As a man, you can't just leave right away. You have to talk, laugh, and eat with the person, and you also have to send the person back home to avoid the introducer losing face. It's really tiring to do this. Later, no matter how much the introducer said "good flowers and good rice" and no matter how much my parents nagged me every day, I couldn't get interested anymore.

As for group blind dates, 8-minute dates, etc., I have heard that they are very efficient, but if the quality of the girls who come is similar to the usual blind dates, I am afraid that it will only be more disappointing. In fact, for us men, there is no need to force ourselves if we can’t find the feeling. Like me now, I am studying for an MBA to recharge my batteries. If my salary will be high in the future, will I be afraid of not being able to find a wife?

Reason 5: Mom and Dad are too sophisticated

stanley "returnee" group, unmarried, 27 years old

When I was studying in Australia, it was difficult to find a Chinese girlfriend. I had long thought about finding one when I came back, but I found that the girl was so snobbish that I didn’t recognize her. It’s not just the little girl’s own reality, her parents are even more exaggerated. Looking for a husband is like going to the market to buy meat. How many kilograms or taels, it’s clear and refreshing!

An acquaintance introduced me to my girlfriend. I felt so good on our first date that I left my contact information. As a result, when we were on the phone the next day, before even saying a few words, she heard her mother keep asking next to her, "What does he do abroad? How is his family situation?" "Does he have a house?" "A How much is your monthly income?” You are not afraid that I will hear you. This kind of "parent" marrying a daughter is like selling her daughter. If I don't have a house and the conditions are not good, there will definitely be no chance. In fact, people's wealth is not permanent. If I don't do well in the future, this kind of wife will divorce me sooner or later. After thinking about it, I decided to forget it.

Now I heard that the "market" situation is that there are more women than men. Think about it, it's not because women have high requirements. They all want to find someone who has money, a house, a car, taste, culture, education, tall, handsome, humor and thoughtfulness. Men...think about how many of those young men who have just worked for a few years can cultivate to this point? Even those of us with a certain financial foundation are afraid that people will come here for the money in your bag. After all, our "blood and sweat" is hard-earned, and it is terrifying to think about it being somehow calculated and put into other people's pockets.

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