I often hear men talking on their mobile phones outside various conference venues, restaurants and entertainment venues: "No, no, I can't leave now. I've been very busy recently, I don't have time, I can't spare any time..." Do these men really love their work so much and are they really so "busy"?

In fact, "I am very busy" is just one of the most commonly used lies, especially the most commonly used mantra in love. According to the analysis of psychological experts, men who like to say "I am very busy" mainly consider five aspects.

1. In the traditional concept, a man who is busy with his career all day long is a successful man and a good man. Therefore, even if a man in love has a mediocre career, he is willing to use "I am very busy" to increase his worth.

2. Some love experts are willing to actively end the conversation by saying "I'm busy" on the phone or in text messages when interacting with women, so that women, especially women who admire him, will have the illusion and have a more negative impression of him. A lot of dependence and expectation.

3. Men who are not very knowledgeable and have a high level of connotation often have a habit of stopping abruptly when talking to women on the phone, because he does not want the other party to "break the pot and ask the truth". "I am very busy" is his best choice. excuse, after saying this he could escape openly.

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Four Some men with low self-esteem want women to cherish him more. They often say "I am very busy" to let women cherish every opportunity to meet him and increase the "gold content" of the date.

5. Due to various unspeakable reasons, some men cannot find a suitable reason or lack the courage to reject a woman, so they use "I am very busy" to vaguely prevaricate the other party.

“I am very busy” cannot withstand the test of time. If a man always says “I am very busy” to a woman, it will increase women’s insecurity. If things go on like this, women will turn from worry to disgust. Because no matter how smart a woman is, she will always understand what a man is thinking when she hears "I'm very busy."

Because women desire the security and durability of marriage more than men, she is unwilling to live in a man’s “suspected scam.”

There are also some "I'm very busy" men who don't understand that the basis for interacting with others is to treat each other with sincerity, which leads to the lack of real friends. However, because it was difficult for him to get rid of his bad habits, he increasingly used "I'm busy" more frequently. This vicious cycle eventually led to him becoming more lonely.