Many men always think that modern women’s utilitarianism is most obvious when it comes to choosing a partner. Most of them believe that women only value men's wallets and "face", and that it is difficult for a man who is neither handsome nor rich to please a woman. In fact, there is a big mistake in this view. In fact, women's mate selection indicators vary from person to person, and usually change due to differences in age, education, personality and background. However, there are still some "hidden rules" when choosing a mate:

First of all , when a woman chooses a marriage partner, what matters most is neither wealth nor appearance, but the character and character of the other person. Even if a man with a character problem can win the love of a woman, it will be difficult for this kind of love to last long, and it is also very difficult to get into marriage. After all, every woman now knows: it is difficult to get married with a man who has a character problem. Living with a man like this is undoubtedly putting a time bomb on your pillow, which may one day wipe you out. Marrying such a man will make any woman feel frightened and mentally disturbed! In addition, 80% of divorced couples have The reasons for divorce are all incompatibility of personalities. It can be said that compatibility is the greatest guarantee for a marriage between two people!

Secondly, when a woman chooses a marriage partner, she pays attention to his family conditions. That is to say, why men from well-known families are always the ideal husband candidates in women's minds. The quality of many men is a combination of the living habits they have developed since childhood, and marrying a man with good family conditions can at least reduce some unnecessary burdens even if you don't want to get help from your husband's family. This is also the case for many urban girls. This is the most sufficient reason for children to reject "urban-rural combined marriage". In addition, the educational level and working conditions of the male parent are also key factors to consider. After all, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem. It is every girl’s wish to meet a reasonable mother-in-law. It is also true that mothers-in-law are better able to communicate with young people.

The third step is the other person’s professional status. Money is certainly important, but living with robbers and drug dealers is also quite scary. With money but no security, happiness is out of the question! It is best for men and women to have a stable and well-paid career. value.

The second one is a man’s circle of friends. As the saying goes, “Those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are black.” Especially in today’s “relationship society”, a person’s success is definitely not Achievements achieved by one person are the sum of the efforts of the people around him. It is difficult for women to see the hope of success when men are surrounded by cunning friends. Naturally, it is also difficult for women to regard them as ideal partners.

Finally, it’s the man’s appearance. Women always look favorably on men with good looks, but when they really want to get married, they are often more willing to choose a man who is not so handsome. As a husband, after all, handsome men face too many temptations. Maybe one day, my first wife will become my second cousin. Living in an unsafe marriage, it is usually difficult for women to find happiness!

Of course, whether these rules are explicit or implicit, the most important goal is to achieve happiness!

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