Falling is a process in which a woman comes out of the emotional world and enters the world of two people. Because of love, women have more opportunities to understand men, relationships, and marriage, and they also make early preparations for women's life after marriage. But many women do not do this, but simply enter marriage unprepared under the compliments of men, which is seriously detrimental to women. If a woman wants to live freely and happily after marriage, she must make rational preparations for the problems she may encounter in the future, that is, she must make rational decisions.

1. How to choose a man?

Choosing a man can open the door to marriage, and women must go through this process.

Getting to know a man is the first step in marriage. In this process, women should not be emotionally invested easily, but should be free to understand men. This will not only expand the scope of contact with men, but also help them understand what kind of man they need through comparison.

You can’t tell a real man by his appearance. In addition to choosing a man's appearance, a woman must also understand a man's growth experience, growth story, type of friends, hobbies, attitude towards dealing with problems, a man's future dreams, etc., to comprehensively judge a man's character, will, and potential. A man who is strong-willed and hardworking at the same time, even though the current conditions are not very good, such a man has great potential, just like a potential stock. Such a man should be a woman's first choice.

Choosing a man who loves you is more important than choosing a man you love. Men naturally like to be hunters, and men will resist from the bottom of their hearts to letting men become emotional captives. There is no need for women to do such stupid things, but many women just do it, so there are many sad stories. This is not necessarily the man's fault, but the woman's stupidity.

2. How to accept a man’s family?

From ancient times to the present, the world of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a world full of contradictions. This is an iron rule. Some women may say that they have a good relationship with their mother-in-law, but statistically speaking, fights between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are common and normal. When a woman gets someone else's son, she must also learn to deal with the relationship with the man's elders. Blaming others will only make women fall into an emotional quagmire, and the woman herself will always be hurt in the end. A wise woman should learn to end such conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because she may also become a mother-in-law one day. Learning to respect mother-in-law can also eliminate conflicts such as sister-in-law and sister-in-law. In short, learning to respect men's family members actually creates a good environment for women themselves. Of course, some women will say: Why should women be required to accept men's families? Because in reality many men are trying to please women and their families, and this rarely happens to men.

3. How to accept a man’s personality?

Accepting a man means accepting the man's personality and accepting many things about this man's existence. Although it may not be reasonable, it is difficult to change a man's characteristics through love. A woman with mysophobia asked her man to wash his hands many times every day, which made him very annoyed and made him complain a lot. It is selfish to blindly demand men according to your own standards. A man who truly loves a woman will take the initiative to change himself, but completely changing himself to cater to a woman can only be a woman's delusion. Women must be mentally prepared before getting married.

4. How to give up your own personality?

Same as the above question, this question is just about how to make the life of a couple more harmonious from a woman's perspective. Everyone has their own personality or characteristics, but in the process of interacting and living with men, women should learn to modify their own personalities. Imagine if men and women both asked each other to adapt to themselves, it would be impossible for such men and women to live together. In fact, marriage to a certain extent means that men and women give up their own characteristics and look for common intersections. The more intersections, the more harmonious the marriage will be. However, this does not mean that women completely give up on themselves to cater to men, but that women need to modify themselves to win a stable and harmonious marriage. This is true for women, and of course it is true for men.

5. How to deal with the relationship between marriage and work?

Love is beautiful, but marriage is boring. When the wedding is over, love comes from heaven to earth, and romance is gradually replaced by reality.

A realistic marriage needs to use realistic pillars to maintain emotional stability. Faced with the insurmountable tasks of pregnancy, raising children, and housework, women devote more love and energy to their families and men. Men are more looking for and practicing development opportunities. As a result, there is a contradiction between the development of men and the stagnation of women, and the contradiction between the boring life and the tempting world that men face. Faced with such a contradiction, many women are always the victims of real marriages. Maybe women will scold men for giving their consciences to dogs, but such pitiful venting of emotions will not bring back men's cheating hearts. Facing the collapse or collapse of love, what do women use to support themselves?

If women can consider this issue when they are in love, I think many women will choose to work to support their possible miserable life. This is sensible and what women should do. Work is not only the backbone of men but also of women. Of course, it is understandable that many women hope to realize their dream of wealth through the husband of a rich man. It's just that women need to bear the consequences of this choice.

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