4 words that can hurt your man invisibly
If a woman is compared to a book, the content of the book must be prose. The more people read, the more they want to read. The more they read, the more confused men become. And if we have to compare a man to a book, , then it can only be regarded as a comic strip, simple and easy to understand but angular. The fate of comic strips is to be read, torn up, thrown away and forgotten by women. The same is true for women in reality. They don’t pay attention to men’s inner emotional world. They say whatever they want and scold whenever they want, which invisibly hurts men. . As a woman, do you mention the following four sentences in front of your lover?
1. Look at others!
Women always use this to complain about men’s incompetence in some aspects. This kind of accusation of incompetence may be in career or life, but it is often this sentence that hurts men greatly. Self-esteem and career are important parts of a man's life. Blind sarcasm may put a man in a desperate situation. There are hundreds of millions of men in China. Each man has a different career and different abilities. The rewards from society will naturally vary widely. Since women have chosen, they should face reality and be content. As long as men do their best, we have no blame. their reasons.
As a man in politics, China's officialdom is a pyramid. The vast majority of men are only in the center or even at the bottom of the tower. After all, there are only a handful on top. As a man in business, shopping malls are like battlefields. Achievements have their failures, gains and losses. Gentlemen love money and get it wisely. As long as you spend enough money, why force too much and make each other unhappy? For men who have failed in their careers, what they need most is comfort and encouragement from women.
2. Where have you been?
If this sentence floats out from a woman's gentle mouth, it will move a man. It reflects the woman's concern for the man, because what is hidden behind this sentence is: "I "I'm worried to death", but if it is asked with a raised eyebrow, it will make men feel sick, because this sentence appears most frequently in police interrogations of prisoners, such as: "What were you doing between what time and what time?" etc. Wait to determine whether there is a time to commit the crime. And some women often adopt this attitude when asking questions. It seems that if a man does not appear in front of a woman for a moment, he is committing inappropriate behavior outside. In fact, a man should have his own living space. This space is free. After all, a man has his own career and social circle. If you love him, you must believe in him. If you believe in him, you must give him space to breathe. It is okay to blame him once or twice, but more If they are suspected of being spies, there will be a gap between them.
Legally speaking, men are not obliged to report everything to women. Some women may say that my man is not angry and will answer honestly when I ask him. This is not necessarily a good thing. A man giving up to a woman does not mean that he is afraid of women. He may feel distressed or disdain to pester her. Even if he is really afraid of women, then this man will completely lose his edges and become inhumane. Women must not be proud of the admirable "wife-controllerism"!
3. It’s all your fault.
Most women are unwilling to admit their mistakes. The phrase "I was wrong" is often considered to be a man's patent. Women are disdainful to say it. Some women express their mistakes by acting coquettishly and proving it by acting coquettishly. Reasoning for one's own shortcomings is generally welcomed, and of course it is worth advocating. In my opinion, if a woman does not say "I was wrong" in her life, she has failed as a woman. Using coquettishness to win a man's sympathy and then his forgiveness, in the end, he still doesn't really realize his mistake, which can only make people suspect that it is a prelude to the next mistake.
But most women use the sentence "It's all your fault" to get rid of it. Women have no opinion on many things. Before making small decisions, they always like to ask men: "Is that so? Is this okay?" , once a man nods, he will do it boldly and confidently. If he succeeds, he will be elated. If he fails, he will put the responsibility on the man. The idea is the man's, and the result should be borne by the man. In fact, occasionally saying "I was wrong" will make a woman more attractive.
4. Whose phone number?
If a man's cell phone rings, women will unconsciously ask: "Whose phone is it?" If a man hesitates for a moment, he will immediately be questioned further, and a normal phone will be put on Unfounded charges, some women have a hobby of looking through men's mobile phones. Whenever they see unfamiliar call records, they will not forget to ask "Whose phone number is it?" If a patient man explains it, repeated questioning may escalate the conflict. , Mobile phones are men’s treasures. This is absolutely true. As a woman, you might as well leave some privacy to men. Maintaining a sense of mystery is not useless for love and marriage.
Mutual respect between two people is the basis for maintaining a beautiful love and marriage. This respect should not only be kept in the heart, but also expressed in words. Respect is trust, just like holding a hand of fine sand and squeezing it too tightly. It often slips out from between the fingers and needs to be gently lifted to make it perfect.
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