People are the most troublesome. They have to find a reason for everything, as if that can make them feel at ease. I am disgusted, but I am also consciously looking for reasons, reasons for being single.

Inferiority mentality:

This type of women believe that it is disgraceful to stay alone in the boudoir over 30 years old, so they are most afraid of others talking about marriage, and are also most afraid of others talking about marriage. I am afraid that people will ask about my marriage in a caring tone, and I will be pessimistic and disappointed with myself, thinking that love will never come again, and I will never be able to love again. They either gradually close their hearts and don't pursue it. Even if a true love man comes, they will never open their eyes; or they go to the other extreme and succumb to the pressure and influence of society, parents, and friends, and follow the trend. The casual approach is to find a partner hastily and get things done.

This seems to be an era of singles. There has never been a period in Chinese history where the trend of being single has been as strong as it is now. Behind the nightly singing and dancing in the bar, behind the booming sales of single apartments, behind the seasoning of Valentine's Day, behind the huge crowds in the gym, behind the overcrowded singles clubs, behind the midnight news station being teased Behind the glamour, behind the fact that "single aristocrats" have become a popular color in the city...how much truth is being concealed?

Closed mentality:

This type of women is not sociable to begin with. They are willing to take a proactive attitude on marriage issues and are not even willing to interact with married colleagues. They keep themselves in their own little world. They like to be alone and have a very narrow scope of communication. This kind of mentality actually greatly reduces their chances of choosing a mate. Their mentality of waiting for those who wish to take the bait will only make themselves extra "arrogant" and deter a considerable number of men who are interested in them. What's more, marriage is a two-way choice. If we don't do anything and the two-way becomes one-way, wouldn't we suddenly lose half of our chances?

Reverse psychology:

Some older women used to If you have too high requirements for choosing a mate and you lose a lot of opportunities, you should learn a lesson and become more realistic. However, they raise their high standards even higher, thinking that "I can't make people laugh at this point." This mentality makes them more "selective" and must meet the ideal requirements. They idealize love and lack a sense of reality. They always hope that their love will be as romantic as described in novels: the moon is white and the wind is clear, and Prince Charming suddenly falls from the sky; when they fall in love at first sight, the flower of love suddenly shines miraculously. It should be noted that marriage is about living a real life and choosing a spouse down-to-earth, so why waste your youth in dreams?

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