Listen to the complaints from the male compatriots around you, saying that "women's hearts are like needles in the sea". I can't figure out what women are thinking in their hearts. They are very fickle and I can't tell which of their words are true and which. The words are false. Many times, in order to maintain the relationship between two people, a woman will say things that are against her will, but they are all with good intentions.

This is especially true in marriage. The editor accidentally saw an activity called "Fall in Love with Love" yesterday. The concept of this activity is: a perfect marriage requires a good relationship as the foundation, and a good relationship is like a plot with twists and turns. Love movies include romance and disagreement. But in short, if you love him/her, be considerate of him/her, and give him/her sexual blessings.

Therefore, when a woman says something that goes against her will, be sure not to expose her. After all, she is here for your feelings.

You won’t be allowed to make any changes

Every woman hopes that her man will have a face like Aaron Kwok and a demeanor like Chow Yun-fat, but if she says it, it will undoubtedly make him lament and feel ashamed. Tell him that you like his furry belly because it makes you feel spring-like warmth in the winter. Tell him you like hearing him snoring like a grizzly bear at night to make you feel safe.

If you love him, tell him that you appreciate everything about him and that his flaws are his characteristics. It's him you love and he doesn't have to change in order to marry you.

I like your friends

Not all women may like your friends, especially those who drink all day long and have no career success, but still talk eloquently. These stinky men and women are not pleasing to the eye, but they are very important to men. In order to take care of your face, women will often pretend to recognize your friendship and loyalty. In order not to hurt your feelings, they will not speak out no matter how unhappy they feel.

So, if you have to eat late at night with those stinky men, learn to like them, or at least pretend to like them. Then, slowly use your schedule to encroach on his time and quietly reduce his "friendly visits" with his friends.

Let me help you pack your things

When we entered the man's residence, most of it looked like a pig's nest, extremely messy. Look at ancient Chinese legends. Men always hope that a little fairy will come down from the sky and clean the house and cook for them. Therefore, to a man who has just started a relationship, you must show your thoughtfulness and say in a sensible manner, "Let me pack your things for you."

Of course, such good times don't have to last long. After his house is completely new and he starts to rely on you, it won't be too late for you to slowly train him to do manual work.

A happy marriage and a good relationship cannot be cultivated overnight. It takes a lot of time to get along and understand each other. Some necessary lies are still okay.

Tips to help your marriage stay fresh

In the first few years of marriage, both parties were passionate about each other and always had endless things to say. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But the Japanese will always pass. After you have been married for six or seven years, will he still be interested in you as he was then? This requires you to work together to manage this relationship.

1. Cultivate common hobbies

Why do so many people have the seven-year itch in marriage? That's because when the passion between two people fades away and the patience and enthusiasm for each other is gone, if there is no common language, the marriage will definitely collapse. Two people should have common hobbies to develop a common language. Only in this way, both parties will have topics to talk to each other when they return home, instead of just the oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea at home.

2. Continuously improve yourself

When women are free, they should not just watch Korean dramas and browse Taobao. They should know how to enrich themselves. The quality of life of a woman after the age of thirty is determined by the ten years between the age of 20 and 30. Reading more books while she is young will make her better. You have learned a lot, and you will be able to use it one day. Only in this way will men respect you. Just imagine, a woman who hangs around men every day, shopping and watching Korean dramas all day, will men be interested?

3. Women should love themselves

Women should not use the excuse of saving money as an excuse not to buy themselves clothes to dress themselves up after marriage. Men are always visual creatures. If you don’t dress yourself up and spend money, other women will spend your husband’s money. Such a life Are you afraid? Men will not blame women for dressing up, but they must have a certain degree of restraint. In short, you must save money while loving yourself. Men cannot live without such a woman.

Women will pay attention to their own sexual feelings during intercourse. For example, if they feel that their sexual pleasure is not that strong, women can take the initiative to use the V-Huanjue vibrator to help themselves. When men see this, they care about their own feelings. Of course, I won't neglect you.

4. Lower your speaking voice

Experts say that when talking to your partner, lowering your voice by one decibel will help control the emotions of both parties, and if you speak your heart in this tone, the other person will be more likely to accept it and listen.