It is said in "Desperate Housewives" that there is an ulterior secret behind everyone. To borrow this line, every man has a secret behind his back that cannot be told to women, and there are more than one.

1. Ambiguity with other women

If a man swears to a woman and says: You are the only one in my heart. Then he must be 99% lying. What he means can actually be understood as: I will not give up you for another woman. If you want to add a time limit to this commitment, it can be as short as one second or as long as a lifetime.

Most men will feel bored in a long-term and stable relationship between a man and a woman, but this does not mean that he intends to give up this relationship. It is just that the extra adrenaline in his body needs new goals to pursue. freed. So his ambiguity with other women became a fringe game outside of his mainstream lifestyle.

The so-called ambiguity refers to the ambiguous intimate relationship between men and women. It is a subtle emotion that is greater than friendship but less than love. The best emotional model for taking responsibility.

Many men are lustful but not courageous, and those who have the courage to take action are just scratching the surface to satisfy their cravings. Therefore, the occasional peacock spreading its wings to flirt with women is enough to satisfy their curiosity. They will enter the elevator before going home and delete all the "criminal records". When they go shopping with their girlfriends, their only pastime is to discover the beautiful women around them. They will even invite their long-cherished partner of the opposite sex out for dinner on days when their wives are on a business trip. As for more possibilities, it all depends on how the other person behaves. All the men are tacit about this, so they will also be tight-lipped about the investigation of their buddies' women.

2. Save your own private money

Once a man has a stable relationship with a woman, he will not be as financially free as when he was single. Most women will care about or ask about the man’s money. Where are you going? In addition to restraining a man from spending money randomly, the more important thing is to prevent him from spending money on women who shouldn't spend it.

Although many men will disclose their financial affairs to their wives and report or hand over their monthly fixed income to their wives, there are still some gray incomes that they will privately open separate accounts and accumulate in case of emergencies. Needs, such as: buying some unnecessary money-burning things; inviting friends of the opposite sex to dinner and giving them some small gifts; lending money to friends in need... If the wife knows about these expenses, she will definitely not let it go, so It is most practical to save some financial strength for yourself.

3. Never refuse "pornography, gambling and drugs"

In the eyes of women, men have many bad habits that they will never change, such as: smoking, drinking, playing cards, watching A Films etc.

Under the temptation of women or the suppression by force, men have promised their wives that they will quit smoking, at least not in front of them, and become fresh and clean new good men. So they threw away all the ashtrays and lighters at home. But after I left home, I had to smoke when my craving for cigarettes started, and I even asked my buddies to smoke a cigarette to satisfy my cravings.

Many women don’t understand why men’s enthusiasm for porn movies has never diminished. They have been interested in pornographic movies since the period of sexual enlightenment. Is it because my woman is not attractive enough? Rather than saying that men are ruthless, it is better to say that they are a visual aesthetic species. Men’s lifelong pursuit and exploration of women’s beauty will never end, so lust is an innate instinct of men. Lust and philandering must not be equated. Men's fantasies about AV actresses will always remain fantasies, and men will always have only one impulse towards the object of a one-night stand.