29-year-old woman was abandoned by her boyfriend and insisted on becoming an unwed mother
According to the "New Business Daily" report, before I had time to taste the joy of the birth of a little life, I realized the sadness of my boyfriend never looking back - "Whether you have children or not has nothing to do with me." Now she is pregnant. Jingxin, a 29-year-old woman who was 24 weeks old, was penniless but insisted on being an unmarried mother.
On December 17, 2008, reporters walked into Jingxin’s temporary home in Dalian. An old red brick building, a two-bedroom house with two beds, one large and one small. "It's inconvenient. If I hadn't been desperate, I wouldn't have moved in." For her friend's acceptance, Jingxin was grateful but helpless. Caressing her obviously bulging belly, Jingxin couldn't figure out why her boyfriend abandoned her so heartlessly. "We fell in love online. He was in his hometown in the north at the time, and he came to Dalian because of me." Jingxin, who lost her mother at a very young age, felt the warmth she had never experienced before under her boyfriend's meticulous care and consideration. In early 2007, the two got married. Living together. "He especially likes children and has proposed to me several times, hoping to have our own children soon."
In April 2008, on the first day of their trip to the south, Jingxin and her boyfriend were on the bed in the inn. , her boyfriend put his arms around Jingxin and proposed to her again. "Thinking that I am already 29 years old and the relationship between the two is so good," she agreed to her boyfriend's proposal. Before the trip was over, she was surprised to find out that she was pregnant. The two also bought a lot of children's clothes and shoes locally.
${FDPageBreak}But the day before the two ended their journey, bad news came that the boyfriend's father had liver cancer. The next day, her boyfriend went directly back to his hometown, leaving Jingxin alone in Dalian. "My boyfriend's father is critically ill, and it's not appropriate for me to have a child at this time." After Jingxin discussed it with her boyfriend, at the end of May, she went to the hospital alone to have a medical abortion. However, something went wrong during the process, and she almost suffered heavy bleeding. She has already had two miscarriages. She was warned by the doctor that if she miscarried again, she would never want to be a mother in this life.
A month and a half later, my boyfriend took care of his father’s funeral affairs and returned to Dalian in early July. His father’s death was a huge blow to him. After returning, he surfed the Internet at home every day.
In early August 2008, Jingxin found out that she was pregnant again, but when she happily handed the pregnancy test strip to her boyfriend, his reaction was very cold, which disappointed her. Two days later, her boyfriend returned to her hometown on the pretext of accompanying her mother. Not long after, her boyfriend broke up with her.
At this time, Jingxin had spent all her money and her boyfriend never came back, so she had to ask her friends for help. No one agreed with her becoming an unwed mother, and her friends even invited single mothers to tell her with vivid cases that such a decision was irrational. What's more, she couldn't afford three meals a day and was in tears all day long. However, Jingxin's answer left everyone speechless: "Being a mother is my right. Men can leave as they please, but my children will never abandon me."
At the end of the interview, Jingxin told reporters She revealed her worries. During her pregnancy, she cried every day because of sadness and had insomnia all night long. Sometimes she used tobacco to numb herself. She was afraid that it would affect the health of the fetus.
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