We meet twice a week, but what does this mean? At present, you may not be a couple yet. A man admits that becoming his girlfriend is an extremely long process and requires at least the following 14 steps. I will list 14 steps here, from easy to deep, to explain which behaviors can prove that a man accepts you as his lover.

1. View sex

Some people think that men take sex seriously. They regard sex as a symbol of intimacy and affection. There are indeed many young men who still hold this attitude.

2. Spending the night out

Sex itself is not reliable, such as spending the night out. Thirty-year-old law firm employee Da Ge said: "It's always embarrassing for me when I wake up in the morning and find someone lying next to me.

I feel like the taste in my mouth is bad, and so does she. , and we are still wearing the same clothes as yesterday. I really want to stay away from her. If she still wants to hug me after waking up, then she must think that we are a couple! I can only be special to me. Spend a night out with someone you want to be close to, and it goes without saying that our relationship will grow by leaps and bounds.”

3. Make breakfast after a night out

My friend Ike asserts. Said: "You still have to make breakfast the next day? That is really a big test. You have got what you want at night, and you still have to make breakfast? Do you want to stay with her for a while?" Because, even if It is the simplest breakfast, and it also requires him to give up some things, such as paying attention to the stock market, morning exercises with friends, etc.

4. Allow you to use his beloved things

Xiao Lin loves his car like a treasure. No one can borrow his car easily. "If you want to borrow my car, you have to do exactly what I say because I had a professional install an alarm on my car... But my wife asked me to borrow my car after we had been on three dates, and I was The answer was, 'Okay, no problem.'"

5. Small intimate gestures in public places

For example, when you are eating with friends in a restaurant, he touches you under the table, or when you are standing together, he Sliding his hand under your shirt and rubbing your back. These small gestures are often not seen by others, so this is not to express your relationship to someone, but to let the other person know that you share a space in the vast sea of ​​people.

6. Kiss you passionately in a public place he frequents

This is a clear indication. Karen said: “I had a girlfriend about two years ago and I liked going to the pub for a drink after get off work. My girlfriend kept trying to get me to be affectionate with her in the pub and I always had lingering fears. I was afraid of being seen by other people I dated. I later realized that I didn’t see us as a couple at all, so I didn’t want to make my choice public.”

7. Allow you to see his collection of small objects

Li Ke once vowed: "There are some things in my bedroom that women will never see." For example, photos of old girlfriends and baseballs collected in high school Cards and so on. But when he met Jesse, his little things came out on their own. They have been together for two years now. "She spends more time with me than other people, so it's hard to hide something from her. I would rather she see these things so that she can understand me better."

8. He doesn't tell her You hide his privacy

My friend Ben once quietly told me that the first time he realized that he had entered an emotional siege was after dating his girlfriend for more than a dozen times. "One night in the middle of the night, I got up to pee. When I got back into bed, she was laughing. She said it sounded like a cow peeing on a rock. I thought I was going to be embarrassed, but he laughed too: Between Us There are no secrets anymore."

9. He adopts your suggestions on his clothing

A woman I once dated liked the tough guy image, and I found myself buying everything. It’s jeans, cowboy boots. Later, she became my girlfriend.

10. After seven months have passed, no third party has intervened

Acker said: "I highly recommend the seven-month rule. Because you may have dated the same person for six After a few months, I still feel like you can’t be a couple. But if you’ve been dating for seven months and no third party has intervened, then you’re already a couple, whether you realize it or not.”

11. He needs to get in touch with other women

Rego recalled: "One morning, I suddenly realized that I had been dating her for several months, maybe seven months, and between us The only option was to go our separate ways. That was the stupidest thing I've ever done. I told her I didn't want to get married yet, let's break up, and she agreed. But it took me a whole year to get her back."

12. Use "we"

Li Wei said: "During the conversation, 'I' unknowingly turned into 'we'.

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13. He shouted loudly, and you saw his tears

Most men think that crying is a sign of weakness, because we always imagine ourselves as the strong one, so You can imagine how difficult it is to cry in front of a woman you're dating. Qiao Shu recalled: "That time, when I was talking about my relationship with my parents, I told myself: No, I can't cry. Don't cry. But she sat there and listened to me so attentively. Knowing that she really wanted to hear me talk, I couldn't control myself anymore. I knew that she loved me and I loved her. If anyone could see the truest side of me, it was her."< /p>

14. Day after day

In fact, there is no way to completely understand whether a person's thoughts are mature enough. I think maybe this is the most attractive thing about love. Relationships always require us to constantly manage and manage with heart, day after day, year after year... This is how true lovers are tempered.

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