Whether a man gets married at the age of 20 or has his own family at the age of 50, marriage is always an important watershed in a man's life journey. Therefore, a man must go through 10 years of experience before getting married. Only by doing this can the dust of desire be shaken off from the body, and the next road can go more smoothly and naturally.

1. Have a stable job

Many inspirational articles say that as long as you persist in doing your job well, your work can become your own career. In fact, as long as a man has a work unit, that is to say, he only needs an organization that can "manage" you. Even if he is a street vendor, he must have a "name" in the community. This is the basis for a man to gain a foothold. Having an organization does not mean having a backer, but in the eyes of outsiders, a man with an organization is trustworthy.

2. You must have a certain amount of savings

Of course, if you can afford to buy a car or buy a car, that would be great, but not all men can do it. The money earned from labor can be used in other aspects besides meeting survival needs, and there must be some savings. It doesn't matter whether it is ten thousand or one million. What is important is that a man has a clear mind and can leave himself room for maneuver.

3. Experience a setback

This is very important. Men mature due to setbacks and can therefore better understand themselves. This kind of frustration includes business and emotional failure, such as being framed, slandered, abandoned by a lover, betrayed by a friend, etc., but there must be a "degree". The so-called "degree" is when a man experiences such a setback. Still able to stand up and start again.

4. Have one or two good friends

Men need one or two good friends, but it is best not to be good friends in business or career, that is to say, it is best not to have interests. Such friends can be classmates, comrades-in-arms, or come together because of common hobbies. Because there is no interest relationship, such friends can become chicken soup for your soul and have a great influence on you throughout your life.

5. Have cohabitation experience

It would be best if you can live with a woman. Cohabitation is a kind of experience for men, a process that forces men to mature. With this experience, men will not feel helpless or fearful about the upcoming marriage life.

6. Men need to experience an adventure

Such an adventure does not only refer to wild adventures, etc., but can even include a ridiculous emotional battle, a desperate business, etc. In fact, such Men are rich. A man with wonderful experiences is attractive. Even if it is just to enrich his conversational skills in the future, it can add a little spice to life.

7. Do something that makes parents feel gratified

This is the easiest thing to do, because all parents in the world are easily satisfied, even if they give Sending a text message "pay attention to your health" will make parents feel warm. However, the things that are easiest to do are often the easiest to ignore. Treating your parents well is a test of your sense of responsibility.

8. Don’t lose your mind by playing with things

A man is an animal that can be addicted to anything. Not to mention drinking and smoking, online games, gambling, etc. can make a man a mess and achieve nothing. Therefore, men cannot let these things affect their lives. As long as men are infected with the hobbies listed above, their life path is destined to be much more difficult and bumpy. A person must have interests and hobbies, but please distinguish the importance.

9. Take a relationship seriously

Don’t envy those playboys who change women like clothes. Love that is just for fun just makes you waste time and energy. Being alone is the most painful. It's not that you can't find your lover, but that there is no love in your heart. When you turn the three words "I love you" into the easiest sentence for you to say, then it will be difficult for you to find true happiness in the world of love.

10. Understand that love is not marriage

Men think that as long as there is sex, there is love, while women think that love is equal to marriage. Therefore, men would rather believe that love is fake than suspect the hypocrisy of sex. The reason why many marriages fail is actually that most people are unable to truly grasp it, so they learn to do what they can.

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