You think you can change him or get him by making these sacrifices and concessions. wrong! wrong! wrong! Take a look at the mistakes that these women often make when they are tolerant, and you will know that sacrificing yourself may not necessarily help others. Do you still only think about him? wake up!

1. Having a child will trap him

Not every man wants to be a father, even if he keeps saying how much he wants a child. Too many second wives and third wives still cannot become eldest wives after giving birth to children. What is even worse is that they have to raise their own alimony, and even go to court for DNA testing and paternity test lawsuits. The task of carrying on the family line has been completed. It is true that you have become a mother, but he may not be willing to be a father.

2. You can trap him even if you don’t have a child

Well, you think to yourself, if a man loves romance and hates children, then just follow his wishes and not have children. The fact is, whether you have children or not, no matter how much you do what you say, he just isn't interested in you: you're just messing around.

3. Just turn a blind eye and it will be fine

You know that he is a romantic by nature. As a man, it is natural to act when the occasion arises, so you make up your mind and everyone will do their own thing. Anyway, you She is a big wife, and men always turn around when they play with her. That's right, but you're not Lee Young-ae, why do you play the perseverant Dae Jang-geum?

4. We swear to each other for food

He said that he loves you, "I don't love the country, I only love you", even if he goes against the whole world. This is so touching...anyone will be moved. It's a pity that he is not the Duke of Windsor, so what he said does not count as eachother, let alone take it seriously. It is even more foolish for you to treat eachother as food.

5. A prodigal can also have true feelings

If you meet an invincible handsome guy, no matter how handsome, perfect, gentle, affectionate, considerate... he has all kinds of prince charming qualities Conditions, you still forgot: a prodigal is a prodigal, and his kindness to you is just his nature, not his true feelings. So you sink like this, and of course you are the one who can't deal with it in the end.

6. If you don’t bother me, I won’t get in the way

Modern people live busy lives, and situations of separation between two places abound. Whether it is a "long-distance relationship", or the other half is an "astronaut", or works in mainland China, who stipulates that two people must live in the same place? Anyway, if the relationship becomes tense, it will become tense. Everyone is busy and living their own lives, and there will be no interference. Isn't this great? When one day you find that the end is not yours to end, it cannot be described as a bolt from the blue: space only brings distance, but it does not mean solving troubles.

7. The invincible man "helps his husband with his luck"

You and he are the best partners at work, "the fish helps the water, and the water helps the fish", you lose him In difficult times, it will be difficult for him to reach the peak of his career without you. So you secretly think that unless his brain is broken, he doesn't want to be serious with you. Well, the truth is, "men will eat grass from the side of the nest", and "if they eat it, they will run away." Although you are his "helper", he may not want to be your husband, so you have to face the end of "losing your wife and losing your army": everyone says that you don't distinguish between public and private affairs, and you lose your relationship as well. Professional image.

8. Low-key is the best medicine for philanderers

Everyone loves handsome guys and everyone snatches handsome guys. When you date a handsome guy, of course you hope that everything will go well. However, you have him, and you don't want to live a life of being noticed all day long. Yes, people who talk about happiness all the time are so disgusting to everyone! So just listen to him and keep a low profile for the long term. That's right, and then when you are so low-key that you can no longer keep a low profile, there will be others around him; only you don't know yet!

9. Say happiness a few times and it will come true

"We are very happy", "We are very good" and "He is very good to me", these are the exclusive lines of happy little women. Unfortunately, if he really doesn't love you that much, repeating these lines every day, although you can maintain a happy image, will not turn you into a "happy little woman." You have to know that these are really two different things.

10. Those who chase you will not escape

If you go through all the hard work and defeat many competitors to catch him, it means that your vision can stand the test, and you will surely It was also his choice after choosing from left to right. So you think, after thousands of interactions, naturally love is stronger than gold, and everyone believes it. So you hypnotize yourself with "live happily ever after", but unfortunately you ignore that the difference between reality and fairy tales is: Prince Charming will change his heart.

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