10 sexual doubts that confuse urban men

In the eyes of most people, sex is a private and difficult thing to talk about. Sometimes they want to say it but dare not. Recently, the famous American gender website "About" launched a survey on this issue and summarized the following ten most common sexual doubts and problems among urban men.

1. Is it embarrassing to buy condoms?

Using condoms means you understand and respect each other's sexual health, and that's something to be proud of. If you can't go shopping alone or with a partner, it's recommended to use a vending machine.

2. Will masturbation cause infertility?

There are many false myths about masturbation. Whether single or married, both men and women have the right to masturbate. It’s a natural way to connect with your body and find pleasure.

3. Is penis size important?

Not important. Faced with a considerate and caring man, and a man who is only a "big guy" but has no brains, women all over the world will choose the former. So, don’t be bound by those misconceptions, but learn to be a skillful, gentle, and trustworthy partner.

4. Is she more experienced than me?

Performance in bed does not depend on how many affairs you have had, but the most important thing is your tacit understanding. If it feels right and you two can communicate intimately, sex will bring you both equal levels of pleasure.

5. Am I not ready?

Many men refuse to admit that sex puts pressure on them to not be "manly" enough. In fact, men's ability to be honest about their feelings shows their maturity and deserves women's respect.

6. Is she always not ready?

When is the best time to have sex? When both parties feel comfortable and want it. If you are too impatient, one party will always be disappointed. If you respect your partner, you should let her know that you won't put pressure on her.

7. Am I “inexperienced”?

In order to cover up their uneasiness, many men will exaggerate their "abilities". To be clear, your rhetoric will only turn off women.

8. How to find your wife’s clitoris?

The clitoris is located roughly above the labia and is covered with nerve endings. It is the focus of sexual stimulation and can push women to orgasm. The best way to find the location of your clitoris and stimulate it properly is to ask.

9. Can my wife have sex during her menstrual period?

Yes, provided you are both willing to do so. It should be noted that sex at this time increases the chance of infection.

10. How to judge climax?

Accelerated breathing rate and changes in body movements are signals that orgasm is coming.