We're not actually lying, we just don't want to make things complicated. However, psychological experts also point out that although these white lies are harmless, they can make women confused. Therefore, in line with the purpose of uniting and harmonizing men and women in the world, we searched everywhere for men who were willing to share secrets that they usually would not admit. You'll discover that the truth about men isn't all that hideous.

Secret 1 Yes, we are distracted more than ten times a day, but it does not mean that we want to leave you.

If the oldest question in history is "What's for dinner?" the next closest question is "Are you looking at her?" The answer is, yes, I am. If you are sure that your man is not squinting, it only means that he has extraordinary peripheral vision.

A friend of the author said frankly: "When a woman walks by, even if I am with my girlfriend, my eyes will light up. I try not to look, but I just can't do it. If there is someone next to me, my eyes will light up." The woman walking by had a very low neckline, and I really couldn’t keep my eyes open.”

Admittedly, we all clearly realized: I held your hand while shopping just now, and now I’m looking at you. A woman will really make you unhappy. But glancing at women passing by poses no threat to our relationship.

He also said: "It's not that I want to seduce others. Looking at other women is like a radar that can't be turned off."

Secret 2: Men get wet at the thought of commitment. Uncomfortable, even if a promise has been made.

Although men often say: I love you until death; I think you are beautiful. Most of the time we still feel quite excited when we think about the lifelong loyalty promise we made to you in front of our family and friends.

But most men don’t think about it when they are young, “Ah, I can’t wait to live peacefully with a good girl, and then grow old together.” Instead, they think about it before the age of 30. , how many pretty girls can I sleep with. It usually takes several years, even decades, for men to give up completely.

Secret 3: Only when you can make money can you reflect the value of a man.

In more than 7.4 million households in the United States today, wives earn more than their husbands. This number has almost doubled from 1981. This was certainly a remarkable achievement for working women, and it was enthusiastically embraced by all American men. Is this really true?

Despite what we say, men are competitive egomaniacs. If the wife gets more money from the family than we do, do you think we are really happy inside?

Another friend of the author said: "My wife and I work as reporters at the same newspaper. After marriage, In the fifth year, I was still checking her pay stub to see how much more my hourly salary was than hers, but because she worked harder, the gap kept shrinking.”

Secret. 4. Although we often protest, we actually enjoy repairing.

11 out of 10 men will say: "To be honest, men like tinkering and repairing things; if it weren't for us, these things would always be broken." Besides, men are good at using tools.

In fact, the reason why men don’t want to say this is because most women don’t know the difference between throwing away garbage and repairing broken hinges; anyway, women think that this is a job that men have to do on weekends. And we need to be hands-on, carefully consider each step, the opportunity to maintain the house, rather than repetitive, impossible to get praise, boring purely physical work. That's the secret.

Secret 5 We love that you take care of us like a mother.

But being like your mother scares us.

Secret 6 I love you more and more every year.

Of course, we looked like adults; we had a few suits; we probably ordered drinks in a sophisticated manner. But even though we look like our dads who are the same age as us, we still feel like kids pulling on their dad’s pants.

Because our minds are far from mature, we will only begin to appreciate what you do when we are 40, 50 or even 60 years old. We can't explain it to you, because then you might think we don't love you anymore.

Secret 7: Men actually don’t know what women are talking about.

Sometimes, women consider some profound and complex "issues" in the relationship between men and women. Then when I get home, I want to “discuss” these issues. During these so-called discussions, men sit there nodding and saying things like, "Of course, I know," "You're so right," and "Correct it next time."

Actually, men don’t know. What a woman says means nothing to a man. Although men hope to correct it next time, in fact, they will only correct it if they really know what the woman is talking about.

We do listen to you. But don’t forget: The part of the man’s brain that processes these things is the one that stores the latest sports gossip.

Secret 8: Men get frightened when a woman drives.

Want to know how to make a tall, burly man shiver? Ask him for his car keys.

There are always men who complain when drinking: "Whenever she drives, I am scared to death."

Of course he will also complain: "Every time I ride in her car, I fully accept the fact that my life may be in danger at any time."

Or: "My wife encounters this problem almost every week Car accidents - it's never her fault. But this terrible experience never stops, it must be because of her bad luck."

Even if your man doesn't say it, he is afraid. You turn him into a crash test subject.

Secret 9: I always wish I was still 25 years old.

To be honest, when I was 25 years old, I worked 16 hours a day and ate shrimp ramen six times a week. But even though men now enjoy being with women, they still miss the days of their malnourished, free and misguided youth. Rob, 41, who has been married for 11 years, said: "Most men miss those days when life was easy, comfortable and carefree. You could do stupid things when you were young."

Although this does not mean that men will leave women and join rock bands, it does explain why men occasionally buy steering wheel covers from the auto parts store and bring home a rock record.

Secret 10: Let me go and I will give you a lifetime.

The most important secret that men never tell women is: if women allow men to be stupid, accept men to play cards to kill time, encourage men to go surfing, and let go, men will always be devoted to her. Accept women.