Ms. e has been dating her boyfriend for 6 years and started living together 4 years ago. Their life is very sweet, but her boyfriend has never asked for marriage. Considering that men and women should be equal in the 21st century, and marriage matters do not need to be dominated by men, Miss E decided to take the initiative to propose to her boyfriend, who readily accepted. The two walked down the aisle and lived happily ever after.

Has the above story happened to you? I believe not. There are many couples who have been dating for more than four years, but the marriage rate is surprisingly low, and the longer the relationship, the greater the chance of not getting married.

The question is, why are men so afraid of making a lifetime commitment?

1. Men are cowardly

“A man is afraid of commitment because he loves that woman too much. If he loves a woman deeply, it makes no difference whether he has a commitment or not.”

If you believe the above argument, please throw away the Qiong Yao romance novels at home immediately. Men are afraid of commitment. Most of them are just afraid of being responsible for their commitments. The cells that do not want to be responsible are basically the same as male hormones, rooted in male genes. The difference is that some men have more of them and some men have less.

2. Afraid of changing one’s lifestyle

"Aren't we good together now, why should we change?"

This should be the most commonly heard reason in movies and real life, but being abused does not necessarily mean it is an excuse. . In fact, humans, like other animals, are really not willing to change the lifestyle they are accustomed to. If you don't understand, just look at your colleagues around you who complain about their jobs every day but still haven't changed jobs.

3. Afraid of change...you

Many women regard marriage as a turning point in their lives, and many men regard marriage as a turning point in their partner's personality and body shape. If you and your boyfriend are surrounded by married women, please pay special attention to whether they are "sister-in-law". A married friend with a bad temper and a swollen and out-of-shape body may be the main reason why you are afraid of your boyfriend.

4. Freedom

Darwin once listed the reasons for not getting married: "Free to go wherever you like; free to go to clubs and talk to people; not forced to visit Relatives and friends don’t have to indulge in trivial matters.” The reasons why modern men don’t want to get married are: they can go to any place they like; they can go to the bar to “beat up” at will; they are not forced to visit relatives and friends, and they don’t have to indulge in trivial matters. Men like freedom, and that remains unchanged through the ages.

5. Select

From "Marriage is the grave of love" to "There is no reason to give up an entire forest for a tree", many arguments against marriage are just restating the same concept: "If you have a choice, you are the boss." . Although it does not mean that every man likes three wives and four concubines, it is an indisputable fact that getting married means giving up the right to choose. If it were you, there are many boutiques and famous stores in the whole street. Would you like to only enter one of them in your life?

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6. Time

When he wants to get married, you think it’s not the right time yet. When you want to get married, he I felt that the economic environment was not as good as ideal, so I chose the wrong timing. End of story.

7. Money

The famous saying of Fat Tiger in the Tinkerbell cartoon: "What's yours is mine, and what's mine is still mine." Even if it's not said out loud, Many women still feel that most of their husband's income should be used for family expenses. Unfortunately, most men disagree.

8. Or money

Marriage is a major event in life, and the degree is directly proportional to the money spent on the wedding. However, gifts, wedding banquets, wedding dresses, wedding photos... all wedding-related expenses have two things in common: they are expensive, and they will only be used once. (At least, hopefully only once).

9. It’s still money

A friend got married abroad and came back to meet up with friends. The first thing he was asked was - how to arrange alimony in the event of divorce according to local laws.

It’s not too negative, but in Asia, where the divorce rate is relatively high, thinking about post-divorce arrangements in advance is at least “hope for the best, prepare for the worst” (hope for the best, prepare for the worst) for the worst), it is already difficult to get divorced, and it will be even more difficult to find that your income after divorce will be halved due to alimony.

10. He doesn’t love you

“Do you really love me?” This is probably the most frequently asked question between lovers. If you ask the other person directly and sweetly, , congratulations, you are still in love. But if you ask this question in front of the mirror every day with tears in your eyes, or even start asking your friends if they think your boyfriend loves you, then 86.42% of them really don’t love you anymore, and you should find your next true love as soon as possible. Son of Heaven.

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