Although many divorced women have successful marriages, we cannot ignore the fact that the divorce rate for women in their second marriage is higher than that of their first marriage. So, please cherish every marriage that starts with love.

The divorce rate in modern society is rising day by day. What is it that kills people’s expectations for marriage?

Myth 1: Marriage benefits men more than women

Myth 2: The secret to a long-lasting marriage is luck and romantic love

Secret: I have seen many examples of long-term marriages. A truly long-term marriage relies on two people's sense of responsibility and mutual care and trust. The happiest life is when two people can still be like friends when they are old, walking hand in hand under the sunset, and a smile lasts a lifetime.

Myth 3: Married women are more likely to encounter domestic violence

Secret: In the past, I always heard people say, "My wife is mine and I can do whatever I want." But now those who are unmarried Cohabiting women are already much more likely to experience violence than married women. There is a woman who will marry a man who beats his wife at every turn. Moreover, current social opinion is also a powerful weapon for women to protect themselves.

Myth 4: There is no difference between cohabitation and marriage, they are just "a piece of paper"

Secret: The most obvious difference is that there are no benefits of marriage - spiritual satisfaction, physical Accumulation of health and wealth. Cohabiting partners are never as loyal as married partners. They have the right to choose again. They don’t know what they want. They will leave when they meet someone they think is suitable!

Myth 5: Long-term relationship Or living together can improve marital satisfaction

Reveal: Cohabitants who agree with cohabitation also agree with divorce. The act of cohabitation will make the cohabitant have a sense of identification with divorce, and subconsciously they will think that this marriage will not last long and they will be separated anyway. This will It is easy for two people to divorce, and it is difficult for a marriage to last long.

Myth 6: The higher a woman’s education, the smaller her chance of getting married

Secret: Although highly educated girls will put a lot of pressure on men, those with higher education will Women are more likely to marry, albeit later, and are more satisfied with their marriages.

Myth 7: A woman’s second marriage will be more successful than her first marriage

Secret: Although many divorced women have successful marriages, reality cannot be ignored , the fact that women in second marriages have a higher divorce rate than in first marriages. So, please cherish every marriage that starts with love.

Myth 8: It is much better for children for parents to divorce than to stay together

Secret: Only those families with particularly severe conflicts will have "benefits" from divorce. . Children of families separated by minor frictions will fare worse. Children will want to have a complete home.

Myth 9: Children in reorganized families after divorce will be happier than children in biological families

Secret: Reorganized families are often not as good as those in single-parent families. The combination of stepfather and stepmother will bring about many practical problems, among which complex interpersonal relationships are a problem, and this is the reason why the family breaks up again.

Myth 10: Few men take the initiative to initiate divorce

Secret: Most divorces are initiated by women, and most of them need to be resolved by law. Such as child custody. Most cases where a woman initiates a divorce are due to her husband's bad behavior, such as gambling, drug abuse, infidelity, etc.

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