At the age of 20, men all over the street look like the person we have been waiting for; at the age of 30, we no longer believe that our future is hidden behind chance encounters.

How do you know how high your love "emotional intelligence" is? Age doesn't tell the story. A 20-year-old girl can be very experienced in love, and a 40-year-old woman has committed suicide for love. Love is like gymnastics. You need to practice continuously from a young age to become skilled. If you practice it when you are older, you will inevitably fall and hurt yourself. Women in this era should practice kung fu well before the age of 30, otherwise they will always cry.

There are indeed those who are blessed with good fortune. Didn't the newspaper just report that a 99-year-old couple in France, childhood sweethearts, were celebrating their 80th wedding anniversary? But most people are not so lucky.

Just like Edison went through countless failed experiments before he finally found the tungsten wire to light the electric light, we also have many doomed relationships to have before we find the man who will spend our lives with us.

The mother of Zhu Chen, the women's world chess champion, said this when she heard the news that she was planning to get married to a Qatari chess player: "Your voyage has just begun, why are you in a hurry to dock?" This should be the heartfelt words of most women who come here.

How can we, at the age of 20, be willing to be tireless scientists? We insist on superstitious fate and ignore mathematical probability. Even though there is a donkey in front of him, he is still praising his depth.

Every young girl firmly believes in her heart: The man who will eventually accompany me throughout my life must be handsome and handsome. The first time I see him, I feel as strong as being struck by lightning, and then a voice says in my heart: That's him... Even if he doesn't even have ten dollars in his pocket, never folds a quilt or reads a newspaper, and can't even cook a noodle, for a man, what kind of shortcomings is this?

The man we see at that time is his face, a face that makes us cry when we think about it. In order to follow this face, we can eat and sleep in the open air. Later we realized that the information conveyed by a face is often wrong. A man with a deep appearance may have a shallow mind, and a caring heart is wrapped behind a generous and tolerant smile. Slowly, we are more and more concerned about whether his room is tidy, whether he can fill out the car insurance form, whether he knows how to restrain his inner impatience... and most importantly, whether he understands appreciation. you?

Hollywood Chinese movie star Chen Chong dated an Asian "Diamond King" before marrying his current husband Peter. When asked about the reason for the breakup, she told her friend: "I felt uncomfortable in front of him. My bluntness seemed to him 'somewhat stupid', and my delicate and sensitive nerves were said to him like 'Are you tired?' He also commented on my strong body as 'too strong'."

Mature women no longer have the ambition to change themselves for men's tastes. It's laziness, but it's also wise.

All women can be divided into two categories, one category hopes to become a millionaire, and the other category hopes to marry a millionaire, but here we can conclude that there is only one category among twenty-year-old women, and that is the category that hopes to marry a millionaire. The kind of millionaire.

All women have had a "bird complex" and want to be the clinging bird next to a man's big tree. But by the age of thirty, most women find that there are few big trees that they can rely on and they are still their own. Hard wings are safer.

When we are 20 years old, we will say: "A complicated man is too cute." When we are 30 years old, our words become: "I love a simple man."

Shan Lin fell in love with a classmate when she was in high school. According to her, the boy was very "alternative". He had long hair all day long, stayed alone, had a bad temper, ignored ordinary people, and could play simple guitar music (such as " "Love Romance"), failed many exams. It is said that his mother is mentally ill and his sister has begun to fall ill. It is obvious familial schizophrenia. But Shan Lin was obsessed with him at that time. She was often so angry with him that she cried and never left him. According to what she said at the time, "What she loved was his uniqueness."

Now Shan Lin's husband is a very good and well-behaved man, with a gentle temper, simple personality, hard work, and loves to do housework. Asked if Shan Lin would still be tempted by a "different" man now, Shan Lin's answer was straightforward: "Let this kind of man go to hell!"

We originally made an appointment to go see a movie together on the weekend, but he called and said that his aunt was having a party at home and he had to attend, so he couldn't watch the movie. We had doubts, so we had to get to the bottom of it, and finally wanted to call his aunt's house to confront him. This is what a 20-year-old girl does.

At the age of 30, it's our turn to lie: "I'm going to hold a seminar with xx company this weekend." Smart men should learn to believe our lies, otherwise how can we get along with each other?

Facing the first man, we swore that our love would last forever; we still said the same to the second man, but we were no longer so sure in our hearts; when the third man came, we turned our heads and looked out the window. , said lightly: "Who can know what will happen in the future?"

When we fall in love with a man at the age of 20, we look forward to staying with him every day. Without his invitation, we knock on his door with a suitcase and ask him to take us in; and when we are 30 years old, there is nothing better than having a bachelor apartment. Something that makes other women even more envious.

32-year-old Ye Wei said: "I can clearly feel that as time goes by, I am less and less able to devote myself to a relationship. I am no longer eager to tell the other person about my life, but slowly Delaying the time for him to understand me. But in terms of sex, it is the opposite. I am gentle with him without delay and find temporary comfort from sex.”

Married men are vaccinated and can be immune for life with just one shot. When we are 20 years old, we fall in love with a married man. While we are madly in love with him, we are also madly jealous of his wife and daughter. This is the most painful love in a woman's life. After being beaten, married men are immune to it for life. Mentioning their behavior is nothing but a sneer.

At the age of 30, we understand that interaction with a married person of the opposite sex can completely become a transaction or a game. Mutual benefit is the eternal rule. As long as you don't take it seriously, you will always be the winner.

At this time, women have become monolithic, and married men are all fighting against each other. The only thing that makes us lose our armor is a single guy who kneels down to propose marriage, so it is not surprising that Faye Wong, who has experienced many battles, left Maicheng in front of Nicholas Tse, even though the ending is not a happy ending.

A woman must fall in love ten times in her life, just like the ten steps on the road to love. Without climbing these steps, you will never be able to see the view from a high place.

◎ Unrequited love - Wishful love is painful and meaningless. If the other person is not on the same wavelength as you, all your outpourings and complaints will be ridiculous in the eyes of the other person. But if you are willing to bury this feeling in your heart and slowly appreciate it alone, it can turn into fine wine.

◎ Love at first sight - This is the most beautiful way to fall in love, and it is also the way that shakes your faith in love the most. Because when the magic dissipates, you will find that the prince turns into a frog. Did you ever fall in love with a frog? You feel so stupid.

◎ Chasing back - you can completely strive for love on your own initiative, and the joy of conquering is unparalleled (so men never tire of it). It's just that chasing back is very skillful. When you are just starting out, you will only bombard you wildly. After you mature a little, you will pay more attention to strategy. Only when you find a spark in the opponent's eyes, you can continue to the next step. Good hunters hunt slowly.

◎ Playboy - There are some men you absolutely cannot want. No matter how handsome he looks, how chic he is, or how charming his demeanor is, he will be a scourge when you bring him home, making you sad and crying, and completely defeated.

◎ Rich men - a man’s money actually has little to do with you: when he loves you, he says you can spend his money as you please (actually he has a bottom line in his heart, he won’t stop if you spend too much) ); when he loses interest in you, his money will have nothing to do with you.

◎ Married men - Men also have a strong sense of responsibility, but this sense of responsibility makes you very annoyed because it is not directed at you.

◎ Taking advantage of sex for profit - This kind of relationship is very irritating. When your original goal is achieved and the other party's enthusiasm remains unchanged, how will you end it?

◎ His betrayal - Men, no matter how honest and decent they look, are traitors at heart. What you have said does not count, and the people you love can hide away. Understand this, and think about it next time you are ready to dedicate yourself. Can you bear the consequences of his betrayal?

◎ My empathy - You must have a clear mind when making a promise. Can you guarantee that your feelings will not deteriorate? If you can't, don't put love and destiny in the same basket easily. At least doing so is responsible for him.

◎ Sex Slave - How important is sex to women? When it's not there, it's very important; when it's there, it's as light as a feather. If a woman falls in love with a man because of sex, she will only despise him in the end. This is very different from men. You shouldn't give up too much if it's just for sex.