Opinions 1: Forcing husband Jackie Chan

Tianming is a doctoral student in a university in the north. After a semester of the school, he couldn't wait to catch up home. Come back to your beloved wife as soon as possible and enjoy a warm and relaxing vacation. Unexpectedly, before the young couple even exchanged a few words, his wife started to be very seductive to him. She kept saying in front of Tianming that so-and-so’s husband had recently received a full scholarship from the United States; so-and-so’s husband had already become a doctoral supervisor; so-and-so’s husband had returned from studying for an MBA abroad and was being competed by several foreign companies. The annual salary is as high as $80,000 and so on. In order not to fall behind "so-and-so"'s husband, Tianming began to study hard from the night he returned home, never leaving the door or taking another step forward.

All the vacation plans I originally thought about were not realized. Before the vacation ended, Tianming said helplessly: "Although I have a seemingly bright future, I feel like a small boat in the sea that has deviated from its channel and cannot find a shelter from the wind."

Expert comments: Obviously, women who have this idea often have a strong sense of vanity, the so-called "husband is honored and wife is valuable"; in addition, they often have a strong attachment mentality, the so-called "there are only vines wrapped around trees, how can there be any"? Trees wrapped with vines." In order to satisfy their vanity and dependence, they do not hesitate to put all kinds of pressure on their husbands. Of course, there is nothing wrong with encouraging your husband to work hard, but creating pressure that is not based on the actual situation may be counterproductive. In a word: A woman who forces her husband to become a dragon is too stupid.

Opinion 2: Unkempt

Mr. Li likes well-dressed and well-groomed women, but his wife is increasingly disappointing him. Mr. Li said: My wife doesn’t know how to choose clothes according to her body characteristics, let alone match colors. I gave her advice and she accused me of being a little man and taking too much care. Once, I joked that men all like beautiful women. Aren't you worried that I will be seduced by others? Unexpectedly, the wife gave a proud "hum" and continued to go her own way. She always believed that her family's conditions were better than mine. She "married" to me despite her parents' objections. She believed that her "righteous deeds" had already "trapped" me, so she dared to live a lazy life with peace of mind. The life of a yellow-faced woman. Although I am not the kind of man who is quick and easy, but when I see a well-dressed woman on the street, I always feel a little disappointed, and sometimes I even have wild thoughts.

Expert comments: Such women are not uncommon in China, especially after giving birth to children and gradually entering middle age. Such women often have the following psychology: First, they have a "safe deposit box" mentality, thinking that the "revolution" is over and they can let go, so they dress casually and no longer pay attention to grooming. The second is laziness. It means that we no longer "strictly demand ourselves", everything is careless and we just muddle along. Heart of beauty in everyone. Do you think such a woman can avoid disappointing her husband? The husband may not say it with his mouth, but he understands it in his heart. This is where the real danger lies. In a word: A woman who is unkempt and willing to be a yellow-faced woman is too careless.

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Opinion 3: Suspicious and arrogant

Mr. Cui is the boss of a 4A company. Due to work reasons, he often takes the female employees of the company out to eat with clients. At this time, his wife's phone call would be traced: "Where are you?" After Mr. Cui answered truthfully, his wife would continue to ask "Why is it so noisy?" or "Why is it so quiet?" When she got home, she would still look for signs of the opposite sex in Mr. Cui through sweet words. She would say for a while, "Why do I smell a perfume?" and then say, "Don't move, there is a white hair on your head, I will pull it out for you." ”——Actually, she wanted to check if anyone had left lipstick or the like on her husband’s neck.

How could these little tricks of my wife escape the eyes of Mr. Cui, a businessman! But he often pretends not to know, so that she can feel at ease in finding nothing. Once, some of Mr. Cui's friends advised his wife not to be too nervous. In turn, his wife asked them seriously: "Our child is still young, so you have to help me look after him."

In recent years, Mr. Cui's business has not been doing well and he has been under too much mental pressure, so his desire for sex has naturally weakened. His wife suspected that he was having an affair with another woman and even hired someone to keep an eye on him. Mr. Cui said: "My wife's behavior is simply against the nature of love."

Expert comments: Suspicious women often do not have confidence in their marriage and themselves. Because she is not confident in her marriage, she is always worried about her husband's emotional displacement or cheating; because she is not confident in herself, she is afraid of being abandoned by her husband one day. The fundamental reason for lack of self-confidence lies in the lack of independence and lack of understanding of the nature of marriage. As for an arrogant wife, she often makes her husband frustrated and speechless, which directly affects the harmony between husband and wife. In a word: A suspicious and arrogant woman is so pitiful.

Opinion 4: Regardless of husband’s dignity

Mr. Zhang said: “I am a man who is oppressed by low salary and cannot feel dignity. One day, I want to use the money I just received to I used a royalties to treat my wife to a restaurant to save some of my self-esteem as a man. During the dinner, I happened to meet two friends, so I boldly invited them to dine at the same table. I didn’t want to exceed the budget when I settled the bill. I didn’t have enough money. , I had to borrow money from my wife. The two friends laughed and said, is your family an AA company? When she heard this, she was furious, pointed her jade finger at my heart and said, "You ask him how much he earns in a month. Can you afford the AA system? "After saying that, he walked away.

Mr. Zhang finally said sadly: "Don't men have no dignity if they don't have money? Why don't women understand that a man who is short of money but not lacking of dignity always has hope of development; but a man who is short of money but not A man who loses his dignity will always be in poverty. Does my wife want me to be in poverty forever? ”

Expert comments: You can ridicule a man’s appearance, but you can never laugh at his incompetence. Ability - the ability to make money and sexual ability are two major aspects of a man's dignity. Men who cannot feel dignity tend to give up on themselves and feel inferior to themselves. Therefore, a smart wife always tries her best to maintain her husband's dignity, and uses various "sweet words" and "technical means" to encourage her husband to sail through the waves and regain his glory. In a word: A woman who doesn’t know how to protect her husband’s dignity is too ignorant.

Opinion 5: Loves comparison and is vain

Mr. Li is a division-level cadre. For his father-in-law's 70th birthday this year, his eldest son-in-law, who is the general manager, gave him a high-end Rolex watch. His second son-in-law, who runs his own company, gave him 10,000 yuan in cash, but Mr. Li's gift was only 1,000 yuan. When Mr. Li's wife saw it, her face immediately showed displeasure. Mr. Li knew that she was feeling uncomfortable, so he quietly reached out from under the table to pull his wife This article comes from adult.6kmall.com and is published by netizens. This site only quotes it for reference. It does not mean that this site agrees with the views of the article. If you believe that the content and intellectual property rights of this article infringe upon your interests, please contact us.