The following ten situations can help you clearly judge the difference between ambiguity and lovers.

1. Men take the initiative to help women in public places

For example, when a woman is talking to her acquaintances about some troublesome and difficult things, the man next to her Take the initiative to interrupt and say that you have any connections or connections, or know someone, or have any special methods to solve problems. In this case, everyone can definitely conclude that the relationship between men and women is not very close. Men take the initiative to provide help to women. It can be said to be an acquaintance, or it can be said to be someone they are not familiar with but have some contact with, but men have a tendency to please. But what is certain is that the relationship between a man and a woman will not be very intimate. Because if it is an intimate relationship, the woman will definitely understand the other person's situation and tell the other person in private.

2. Men often buy breakfast for women, not for the sake of being attentive

Men often buy breakfast for women, but women never buy it for men. Then the relationship between men and women is No longer just acquaintances, if the man is not the woman's junior, junior, or the like, then it must be certain that there is another invisible thing balancing this behavior. For example, a man and a woman have an ambiguous relationship, and in this relationship, the man is the active one, while the woman is the psychologically dominant party.

3. Men and women often stay together, but when they have acquaintances, they wear plain clothes

If this situation exists, it must mean that the man and woman are already lovers, and they will not be a normal couple, but an extramarital affair. Because if they are friends, there is no need to avoid people, and if they are a normal couple, there is no need to pretend to be strangers. As long as they are extramarital lovers, they can't help but see each other frequently. But when they meet other acquaintances, they have to find excuses. When they meet outsiders, the two of them have to pretend that their relationship is very ordinary. It's just that this is deceiving one's ears and stealing the bell. Some male and female lovers will not shy away from it on certain occasions, such as in front of a few close friends.

4. Men and women are not husband and wife, but they often get angry

Both men and women get angry and ignore each other. This not only shows that the relationship between men and women is deeper, but also shows that there has been a long emotional relationship between men and women. When a relationship begins, men and women generally don't get angry often. Both parties care about each other's feelings. But when the relationship reaches a certain depth, one party will give more to the other and will also receive more from the other. and demands, there will be more capital for anger. When feelings become "tasteless", it will be easier to become angry.

5. Women can casually speak to men in a lecturing tone in public places

If a woman and a man are not husband and wife, nor are they related to other relatives, but women can casually talk to men in public places. He talks about men in a lecturing tone, and men show surprising generosity, and at most they say a few words of impatience. That must mean that the man and woman had gone to bed for some reason. And getting laid has a purpose. If a man is still a woman's immediate boss, and the woman can reprimand the boss in turn, then it must be that the man messed up the relationship between superiors and subordinates in bed and made some promises that he should not have made.

6. Women say bad things about men behind their backs, and they are about sexual matters

Women say bad things about men behind their backs, and they involve sexual privacy. That means the man has a problem with the woman, or the man has done something to the woman. Or there was an ambiguous relationship in the past, but now the relationship has deteriorated.

7. Women and men walk together openly and act relatively close

If there is no biological relationship between men and women, in this case, the relationship between women and men is What becomes clear is at most the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. Especially when men and women appreciate each other and are more speculative but have not really started their emotional journey, they may seem very affectionate, but they will be generous when getting along with each other. Between men and women, except for normal couples, they will behave before they get along. They tend to get together, but when they really stick together, they will take the initiative to separate in public.

8. A woman invites a man to dinner

When a woman invites a man to dinner, she either owes him something, appreciates him, or wants something from him. If the above reasons are present, it is more likely. If a woman invites a man to dinner but is very polite or always wants to please, she must be asking for something. When a man and a woman have no sexual relationship, the woman may treat the man to dinner for other reasons. However, after a woman has slept with a man and developed feelings, the woman may cook for the man at home, and most of the people who treat her out will be men. If a woman invites a man to a meal at this level, it must be a casual meal, maybe on the spur of the moment, and the man doesn’t bring any money.

9. A woman and a man walking in tandem and separated from each other

We thought that if we did this once or twice, maybe people would not associate these two people together. But this way of walking in tandem is much more repetitive. This also shows that the relationship between men and women is special, and it is the reason why they need to guard against acquaintances.

10. Men give roses to women in front of everyone

Perhaps, some people think that this must be done between husband and wife. In fact, this is not necessarily the case. It is most likely that men He has an open relationship with a woman. It is rare for a husband and wife to send each other flowers, but most likely when a man starts pursuing a woman. But after marriage, the chances are much less. Unless a man feels he owes a woman too much, he only thinks of sending flowers. But for lovers, sending flowers is flattering and cheap.