Couples have been together for a long time, and if they don’t know how to keep it fresh, the relationship will inevitably fade away. In the process of the relationship weakening, there will be some symptoms. If these symptoms appear, both husband and wife need to work hard to improve the relationship, so as to avoid the relationship becoming irreversible.

So, why is the relationship between husband and wife getting weaker and weaker? These 5 reasons may be at play!

First, the couple feels lazy and complains

In love, both people are very active and enthusiastic, and after marriage they also compete to do housework, but as time goes by, the couple or one of them becomes lazy and dissatisfied, and at the same time, the couple The couple or one of them will become more and more bored and even complain that their partner is not as good as they imagined. After all, they have seen too many shortcomings in the other person to tolerate.

Second, having nothing to say becomes more silent

There are many reasons why husbands and wives do not talk. It may be that they had an argument due to conflicts, and then the words they said hurt each other. Afterwards, the two people had a cold war and lacked communication. A long-term cold war will only make the relationship between the two parties worse and worse. Silent. It is also possible that both parties have misunderstandings and suspicions. If there is another dispute, the relationship will inevitably fade away.

Third, cynicism will only hurt feelings

When the relationship between husband and wife is very fragile, they cannot even tolerate some innocuous words. It can be seen that the couple or one party has reached the point of incomprehension and intolerance. For example, when one party tells a joke, the partner will be sarcastic, or feel bored, or even Will curse, or even get angry and get into a heated argument with you.

Fourth, always refuse to participate in family activities

Couples need regular family activities, which is one of the foundations of family harmony. For example, if you go to a relative or friend's house on the weekend, if one party has an idea, the partner will repeatedly reject such a proposal for various reasons, or always find reasons to blame the other party. It is obvious that he has no interest in family activities.

Fifth, the sexual life of husband and wife cannot be harmonious

There are many conflicts and frictions that can be resolved through married life, and sexual life can enhance the relationship between husband and wife. If one or both spouses are very resistant to having sex, the relationship will slowly fade away if this continues for a long period of time. Of course, if one party is suffering from a disease, that's a different matter.

In short, in love and marriage, when men and women have been together for a long time, various conflicts will always occur. Perhaps they can see each other's shortcomings more clearly, and then they will find fault with each other. If both parties cannot tolerate each other, shortcomings, and if you don’t add some freshness to the marriage, the relationship will quickly fade.