Many people are prone to premature ejaculation during the newlywed period, especially in the first few days of sexual intercourse for newlyweds. The husband's penis has not yet come into contact with the wife's vagina or has just been inserted into the wife's vagina, and ejaculation occurs involuntarily, causing the penis to become weak. Can't continue having sex. So, why is premature ejaculation most likely to occur on the wedding night? How can you avoid premature ejaculation on your wedding night?

Why does premature ejaculation occur on the wedding night?

1. Lack of sexual life experience

During the newlywed period, men are full of longing and hope for their sexual life. They yearn for the joy of sexual life, but are also worried that their wives will not cooperate well. They don’t know how to live a more harmonious life. They live a sexual life in this extremely complex psychological state. , it is inevitable to be mentally nervous and have reckless movements. In addition, the nervous system is overtired during the wedding stage, and other systems have difficulty adapting. Temporary errors often occur and ejaculation occurs in advance.

2. High sexual excitement and ready to explode

After the newlyweds get along with each other in passionate love, their sexual excitement is very high. After marriage, the activity of most areas of the cerebral cortex is also concentrated on the sexual organs. The penis will become erect with the slightest sexual stimulation. If it is in contact with the female vagina, Contact is often explosive, which is also one of the reasons for premature ejaculation during newlyweds.

3. Semen accumulates in large amounts and overflows when full

Before having sex for the first time after marriage, a large amount of semen has accumulated in the male reproductive organs, which creates a sexual stimulation of fullness. This stimulation is also a major factor in stimulating sexual desire. Even if there is no sexual intercourse, spermatorrhea will continue to occur. , it is easier to ejaculate when in contact with the vagina.

In fact, premature ejaculation is mostly caused by psychological factors and is mostly a temporary phenomenon. The above-mentioned negative psychology of anxiety, worry and depression is not only unnecessary, but will increase the chance of premature ejaculation.

How to avoid premature ejaculation on your wedding night?

1. Make preparations first, don’t have sex just for the sake of having sex

Simple sex life can only play a role in completing the task. Therefore, it is very important to make preparations before sex. There are various forms of preparation, including affectionate conversations, listening to affectionate soft music, touching the "erogenous sensitive zone", emotional edification and intimate actions, etc., which will cause both parties to have sexual impulses. At this time, Only when you have sex will you be more likely to succeed.

2. Have sexual imagination

Don’t live a sex life just for sex, but have sexual imagination in the process of sexual activities. If you imagine that you are having sex with the "Prince Charming" or "Beautiful Princess" in your mind, you can achieve sexual satisfaction. Sexual imagination can only be contemplated, not expressed. Otherwise, not only will you not be able to have a happy sex life, but on the contrary, it may lead to a breakdown in the relationship.

3. Adjust the different sexual cycles of men and women

To prevent these situations from happening, we must fully understand the different sexual cycles of "men are fast and women are slow", and do a good job in inducing sex so that the wife's sexual impulse comes faster. Once the husband's orgasm has passed, he will When the wife's orgasm has just begun, the husband should caress her to satisfy her on the other hand. Because the wife's sexual desire is extensive and not limited to the sexual organs like the husband. The sexual union between husband and wife is short-lived, but the spiritual happiness that two people feel from it is profound and long-lasting.

4. Both husband and wife must play the leading role

The vast majority of wives blame their husbands for their inability to achieve orgasm. In fact, the key to achieving orgasm lies with yourself. At this point, it is easier for the husband to do it. As a wife, she is often passive during sex due to the influence of cultural customs. She does not take the leading role or enter the "role". Of course, she cannot obtain a satisfactory sex life experience. Therefore, the woman needs to play a good role. main character.