Men often joke that other people's wives are the best. In fact, this exposes their true mentality. If a husband praises other people's wives, the wife will feel very harsh and uncomfortable when she hears this. Noisy can't change a person's feelings, because this is common among men. There is a psychological factor.

So, why do men always think other people’s wives are good?

First, the psychological differences between men and women in love

Generally speaking, women are slow to warm up emotionally. They love slowly and for a long time. Their love for their husbands is usually from beginning to end. A man's feelings are like a storm, they come and go as quickly as they come. Some men are irresponsible and always hope to have a nanny at home to take care of the family and a lover outside to comfort their souls. Although sometimes he may still love his wife, it cannot stop them from having such thoughts.

Second, after marriage, the wife no longer cares about her own image

Women pay great attention to their external image. When they go out, they always spend a long time polishing it. However, at home they are careless and a mess. Maybe they think their husbands don't care about their image, while men often find their wives' image a bit off-putting to them. As a wife, a woman should correct these misunderstandings and pay attention to her image in front of her husband. In order to maintain a perfect image in the eyes of your husband, it is best to dress up every morning before appearing in front of him.

Third, not getting approval from your wife

Many wives talk to their husbands in a dignified tone, or never praise their husbands, thinking that their husbands' contributions to the family are natural. This view is wrong. Both husband and wife have family responsibilities, and it is natural to sacrifice for the family. If couples praise each other frequently, express gratitude frequently, and pay attention to their speaking skills, the relationship will be more harmonious and the family will be happier.

Fourth, make some unfair comparisons

No one is perfect. Men all dream that their wives are perfect. They like to compare their wives with other people’s wives. But their methods of comparison are often unfair. Don't compare your wife's shortcomings with the advantages of others, because your wife may have advantages that others do not have. Therefore, some unfair comparisons will inevitably compare your wife to nothing.

Fifth, because the husband and wife know each other too well

There is too much understanding between husband and wife, which also makes the husband think that other people’s wives are good. If the wife takes the initiative to keep a little distance from her husband and creates a sense of mystery for him, it will be beneficial to maintaining the marriage. Couples can both work on each other to inject some freshness and distance into their marriage, which can increase mutual attraction.

In short, if a man thinks that someone else's wife is good, it is because he is too familiar with his wife and knows everything too well, so he loses his attraction. Therefore, a certain amount of personal space must be preserved between husband and wife, and the wife must pay attention to maintaining her own image. This can enhance mutual attraction and help maintain the relationship between husband and wife.