As the saying goes, the wedding night is always very nervous and happy when the wedding night is filled with flowers and candles. But when having sex on the wedding night, shyness will also cause a series of problems, thus affecting the interest. How can newlyweds overcome shyness and enjoy sex? Let us find out next.

How can newlyweds overcome shyness and enjoy sex?

1. One party must take the initiative

On the wedding night, it is the first time for both husband and wife to have sex. If both parties are shy, then the sex life will not go smoothly and a meaningful and beautiful time will be wasted. At this time, it is necessary for men to open up the situation, take the initiative to flirt, and use gentle foreplay to make the other party indulge in sex. Women should also open their minds and bodies at this time and truly accept each other.

2. Pay attention to cleanliness and hygiene

Before having sex, it is best for both husband and wife to clean themselves up and take a shower. Not only can the genitals be kept hygienic, so as not to affect the sexual desire and health of both parties, but it will also make oneself smell good, so that body odor will not appear and cause embarrassment. If you don't have the conditions to take a bath, you should also wash the private parts of both parties. This is a good thing for both parties.

3. Care about the woman’s feelings

Because it is the first time to have sex, there is a situation where the hymen is broken. If the sex life is more intense or the man is rough, it will leave a shadow on the woman, which is not conducive to the harmony of sex life. The man must caress the woman gently to relieve her tension and give her a wonderful and harmonious wedding night. And you must pay attention to foreplay. If you want to penetrate without doing anything, it will cause a very bad feeling for the woman

4. Men who ejaculate too quickly can be understood

When men have sex for the first time, it is easy for men to ejaculate too quickly due to lack of sexual experience. This is understandable. It must be distinguished from premature ejaculation. If you don't believe it, you can have sex for the second time, and it will definitely be much better than the first time. Regardless of whether it's a man or a woman, don't take this matter too seriously, so as not to affect your emotions.

5. Be gentle after sex

Don’t smoke immediately after sex, and don’t fall asleep immediately. The best thing is to snuggle up and have a few whispers after cleaning, including hopes for the future, including hopes for the family's sex life. This can make the relationship between husband and wife more intimate and relieve physical discomfort caused by tension.

The wedding night should be harmonious and happy, and there should be no various situations. The above are a few things you need to pay attention to on the wedding night. I hope it can be helpful to everyone and help everyone leave beautiful memories.