Perhaps many men have experienced times when they “can’t do it anymore”. This is a very natural and very common phenomenon. Except for a few individuals who do have organic lesions upon examination, what is important is how men view this phenomenon.

Under normal circumstances, most men can look at and accept this fact calmly. Therefore, they remain unharmed and quickly return to normal, continuing their sexual experience. Meanwhile, the fact fades away before their wives even have time to worry. However, there are a small number of men who are different. Even if they only have one-time erection difficulties, they will show worry in the next sexual life, and they will always monitor their sexual performance like bystanders. Fear and underlying anxiety divert these men's attention from sexual feelings to the extent of penis swelling or weakness. These people often end up as patients with psychogenic impotence in male sexual disease clinics. Several clinical cases can vividly illustrate this point.

Twenty years ago, a couple of graduate students from the Chinese Academy of Sciences lived in a collective dormitory. Their normal couple life stopped. They could only get together in the dormitory after local students went home on weekends. But who knew that this The man didn't respond at all. It turned out that he was always worried that the partition wall had ears or that a classmate would suddenly break in. It wasn't until they found a cabin of their own that his sexual function returned to normal.

A 40-year-old man came with his wife to seek treatment for erectile dysfunction. The man will have erection difficulties almost 1/4 of the time during sexual intercourse. His wife frequently displayed contempt, ridicule, and sarcasm about his sexual prowess. During the treatment, the doctor learned that his wife had been having extramarital sexual relations. She accompanied her husband for treatment just to prove that her husband was incompetent and that her extramarital sexual relations were out of helplessness. Therefore, she always deliberately interfered with the treatment process when the treatment improved slightly. In this case, the treatment ended with the dissolution of the engagement.

It can be seen that situational ED or occasional erection difficulties in some people are not entirely caused by physiological factors, and the triggering factors are diverse. For example, some people can only function normally when going on vacation but not at home. Some people find that condoms and other contraceptive tools can easily suppress their sexual excitement. They also have potential homosexuality, concerns about smaller penises, and lack of love in marriages. Wait, all of these can make a man unable to hold his head up, his will become increasingly depressed, and he may even lose the courage to survive.

In fact, if you want to overcome this sad mood, you must scientifically analyze some abnormal phenomena happening around you, and try to break out of the shackles of the spirit. Therefore, when people with occasional erection difficulties seek treatment, they should relieve themselves of the heavy mental burden and speak out their frustrations. Only by doing this can we overcome the temporary difficulties and restore normal sexual ability. But be reminded that no matter what kind of treatment you will receive, the most basic principle is: you need your own self-confidence, self-improvement and self-cleansing.