Although many men say they don’t care whether a woman is a virgin or not, survey results show that many men actually have a virginity complex. Many people think that the hymen represents chastity, so it is very important. However, the role of the hymen is not the only one, the hymen also has other functions. Let’s learn more about virgin touching.

What does a woman’s hymen look like?

What does a woman’s hymen look like? First, know that the posterior vestibule is located behind the external urethral opening at the vaginal opening. There is a thin layer of mucosal folds around it, called the hymen. The hymen is a hollow membrane covering the external opening of the female vagina, about 1 to 2 mm thick. Both sides of the membrane are moist mucous membranes. The two layers of mucous membranes contain connective tissue, capillaries and nerve endings, with a small hole in the middle. It's called the hymen hole.

The size of the hymen pores and the thickness of the membrane may vary from person to person. The diameter of the hymen hole is about 1 to 1.5 cm, usually round, oval or zigzag-shaped; some are half-moon-shaped, with the hole on one side; some are septum-shaped holes, with two small holes for upper and lower or Side by side; some have many scattered holes, just like the holes in a sieve.

The hymen prevents external unclean things from entering the vagina and protects the vagina. Before puberty, because the ovaries secrete very little estrogen, the vaginal mucosa is thin, has few wrinkles, and has low acidity, so the resistance is poor. The hymen has a protective effect in blocking bacteria from invading the vagina; after puberty, with the development of the ovaries, the body As estrogen increases, vaginal resistance strengthens, and the hymen gradually loses its effect.

Hymen after intercourse and childbirth

When a virgin has sexual intercourse for the first time, when a man's penis is inserted into a woman's vagina, the hymen is often broken and cracks are formed. The cracks in the hymen are often multiple and extend radially from the center to the surroundings. Because the male penis enters in a generally downward direction. Because the crack is deep below both sides of the vaginal opening and can reach the base, it is called a complete rupture. Sometimes because the man uses too much force during sexual intercourse, the nearby vaginal wall can also be lacerated. For women who have given birth, due to the vaginal delivery of the fetus, the hymen is further damaged and even mutilated everywhere, sometimes leaving only a few remaining protrusions, called hymen marks. If the baby is delivered by caesarean section, because the baby is delivered from the incision in the lower abdomen and does not pass through the vagina, the hymen will still maintain its post-marital shape.

The relationship between hymen and virginity

Generally speaking, the rupture of a woman's hymen means that she is no longer a virgin, but this is not always the case. Although some women's hymen is intact, they are no longer virgins. Some women are indeed real virgins, but their hymen has been ruptured. Because the hymen of some virgins has large holes, good elasticity, and few blood vessels in the membrane, and the man is more gentle and not rough during sexual intercourse, the hymen may not rupture after multiple sexual intercourses; on the contrary, some virgins may have their hymens ruptured due to some accidents. For example, some women insert small toys into the vagina due to ignorance in childhood, some encounter trauma, or sharp objects happen to touch the vulva, some are damaged due to masturbation, washing or vaginal plugs, and some are caused by the original hymen. It is very fragile and can break during strenuous exercise. Therefore, you cannot determine whether you are a virgin simply by whether your hymen is broken.

The correct way for a virgin to masturbate

1. Be careful with the hymen, it’s best not to touch it

Many women think that the hymen is deep in the vagina. In fact, it is not. There is a thin membrane at the caliber of a woman's vagina. The color is pink or translucent, and there is no difference in color from the surrounding mucous membrane. It is the hymen. If a hard object is forcibly inserted into the vagina, the hymen may be destroyed at the vaginal opening, so virgins should be careful when touching it.

2. Stroking the clitoris can achieve clitoral orgasm

Above the urethral opening is the clitoris. You can wash your hands and gently stroke the clitoris with your index finger, which can also stimulate women to reach orgasm. This avoids directly playing with the vagina, which may cause damage or "bleeding" to the vulva.

3. Masturbation techniques are very important, focusing on self-stroking

The way of stroking is to use the tips of your fingers to make circles to massage every small part of the body, usually the ears, inner thighs, nipples, buttocks, clitoris, and lower abdomen. You can use appropriate essential oils for better results.

4. Use nozzle to stimulate

For private parts and special sexual pleasure, the water from the nozzle is generally very powerful. According to surveys, many women have tried pointing the nozzle at their vaginal opening when taking a bath alone. This powerful force will cause an itchy feeling. It can also give them a special sense of sexual happiness.

5. Electric massage stick, can assist in massaging the whole body

The electric massage stick sold on the market is only 5cm long and can massage the periphery of the vagina. Don't think that the automatic vibration is too fast, which can easily cause itchy and uncomfortable feelings. Generally, electric massage sticks have a frequency switch, and you can control the speed to satisfy yourself.