What a man gets after accepting his lover's chastity is physical satisfaction and spiritual pleasure, but a woman has a fierce ideological conflict during the entire lovemaking process. I'm afraid it is not simply from the pain of the hymen, but mixed with more. Indescribable sorrow.

At this time, the girl is often trapped in a whirlpool of ambivalence in bed: she is willing to give her body to the man she loves, but then asks herself whether it is right to do so; therefore, she is both eager and afraid; she loves that man, I'm afraid of that man again.

She longs for his caress and praise, but is also afraid that he will only care about his own pleasure and act recklessly; she is intoxicated by his gentleness, but hates his insatiability. She hopes that she is the first one he has ever had sex with, but she hopes that he is sexually experienced; but she cannot tolerate vulgar words such as sexual experience, but requires him to be considerate; she seemed very loyal when she was in love, but now she is It's extremely contradictory; I look proud when dating, but feel humble in bed. She was very passionate when she was a girl, but she pretended to be noble after becoming a woman.

She is afraid to face her body, and at the same time, she is afraid to accept a man's psychological judgment of her body face to face. Otherwise, why would she always close her eyes involuntarily when making love? Because at that moment she would rather escape reality and let the darkness wrap up her inner conflicts.

Men only care about their own enjoyment, and they don't care about understanding the subtle mentality of girls. Maybe after the man leaves after having sex, the woman will secretly curse you as a stinky man. Of course she still loves you.