In this impetuous society, one-night stands have developed into a normal problem. There are many motivations for one-night stands, and different people have different understandings of one-night stands.

Netizens’ big discussion about one-night stand

Netizen Beijing Winter: There are usually two situations when a woman has a one-night stand with a man: Either she thinks the man is OK, so she uses her own conditions to bewitch the man in front of her, and has a one-night stand with this man to hide her love for the man. of insecurity. Or maybe she was under the man's temptation and praise, thinking that she was the only one, and therefore felt that tonight's one-night stand was something she did especially for this man. One-night stands may not necessarily be initiated by men, but are the preferences of men.

Netizens dispersed the gardenia flowers: To put it bluntly, if the other person is indeed very attractive, a man will feel a sense of accomplishment after a one-night stand. And men get more sexual satisfaction from one-night stands than women. In fact, one-night stands are sometimes due to loneliness and sometimes due to too much sexual repression. They are nothing more than a way to relieve oneself. Men and women are the same. Without the cooperation of women, men themselves cannot have one-night stands, so they cannot be blamed for one-night stands. On men.

Netizen Cowboy Kakaka: One-night stand, not several-night stand. This means that it is a short-term sexual behavior, one-time, and there is no entanglement or trouble. If something happens after one night, it is no longer a pure one-night stand. And if you are too serious, the chances of a one-night stand will be greatly reduced. Personally, I think it’s okay to try out a one-night stand once in a while when it’s safe.

Netizen Princess Sisi: When you meet a man like Daniel Wu, you can’t expect him to spend the rest of his life with you, so if the opportunity is right, you can have a relationship with him for half an hour in an afternoon or in a completely unfamiliar place, and there will be no words after that. How cool and romantic to leave.

Netizens are very confident: Most women feel even more empty and lonely after a one-night stand, and women who truly enjoy and feel pleasure are not common. And many women feel that they are being used in a one-night stand, so this is also the reason why women feel a little negative after a one-night stand. Thoughts like "Such behavior makes you look cheap and makes you look casual." make women feel bad.

What are the reasons why women have one-night stands?

1. Injury: This is the root cause of girls who frequently find one-night stands. It comes from the pain in their hearts

The most common thing is that they are abandoned by their boyfriends, and this boyfriend is often their first man, the first man they think they can trust for life. So after breaking up with them, I suffered great psychological damage and no longer believed in love, so I began to deliberately indulge myself and use one-night stands to make up for the wounds in my heart. Due to the disappointment in love and the hatred of one's own indulgence, this complicated emotion will lead to the psychological belief that one is a bad girl, and the more indulgent one is, so one-night stands are frequent. In fact, it is just a kind of emotional catharsis. They use extreme feelings to release the gloom in their hearts. At this time, the one-night stand is just a disguised form of self-abuse for them, like a wounded beast, but they keep tearing open their own wounds. Let the wound continue to bleed... What I want to tell these girls is: In fact, it doesn't have to hurt to feel your own existence. In fact, you can change it back again. Life is not easy anymore. Please take care of yourself and your body.

2. Anger: A moment of anger may cause great changes in a person

This kind of girl is often more lively and has a hot temper. Often after a quarrel with her boyfriend, she deliberately uses a one-night stand to calm down her mood. In fact, they just want to vent, just like children. What they think in their hearts is that my boyfriend doesn't care about me anyway, so I want to deliberately anger him. In fact, she just wants to find someone to care about her, so it is often easy to have a one-night stand with a boy who can comfort her to find that loss. But often after a one-night stand, when the mood calms down, one begins to regret what one has done. Many young girls often become young women in such a moment of anger... To quote a famous saying: Men often regret not having sex with a certain woman; women often regret having sex with a certain man.

I hope that this kind of girl can calmly think about it for three minutes before looking for a one-night stand. In fact, you can use more appropriate methods to balance your mood, such as chatting.

3. Loneliness: Lonely hearts often need comfort

When there is no one to accompany you during the long night, the psychological loneliness is often the reason why a single woman has a one-night stand. In fact, the need for sex is not great, I just want to find someone to accompany me and spend a long night with me. One-night stand is a way to fill the yearning for warmth and the fear of loneliness. These girls are generally open-minded and advanced-thinking... full of desire for romantic feelings.