What are the taboos for newlyweds on their first night?

1. Don’t forget to kiss deeply

When having sex for the first time, men and women are often passionate about kissing and touching as a prelude to sexual intercourse. However, kissing inappropriately can lead to great joy and sorrow. If you kiss inappropriately or press the other person's neck too hard, the heart rate will slow down and the blood pressure will drop. In severe cases, it can reflexively cause cardiac arrest, which can lead to death.

2. Don’t overindulge yourself

Newly married men and women are so horny that they indulge in sexual desire and have sex frequently, which is harmful to the body. In the process of preparing for the wedding, you are already very tired. If you continue to have sex too much, the body's disease resistance will decrease and some diseases will occur. Generally speaking, healthy men and women should do it 6 to 7 times a week in the early days of marriage, and then reduce it to 3 to 4 times a week. As long as they don't feel tired the next day, but feel happy and energetic, they are adaptable. If there is emotional fatigue, weakness, backache, drowsiness, dizziness, shortness of breath, etc., it means that sexual intercourse is excessive and must be controlled, otherwise it will be harmful to health.

3. Don’t be impatient and rude

During sexual intercourse, the man should be kind and gentle, and should not be too rude to avoid causing pain to the woman and causing negative stimulation. Excessive excitement often leads to premature ejaculation. If this happens, don’t worry too much. It will gradually improve in the future. If a newly married woman catches her menstruation, the man must control his sexual behavior and cannot have sexual intercourse, otherwise it will cause pain to the woman.

4. Don’t be suspicious

If a newly married man and woman find that the woman's hymen has been broken during sexual intercourse for the first time, they should not doubt the bride's moral behavior. In fact, hymen rupture is common for women. Many daily activities can cause hymen rupture, such as participating in sports and heavier labor. Therefore, the man should not be suspicious and cause unnecessary conflicts.

5. Pay attention to hygiene

When you have sex for the first time, even if it is your first time, you should pay attention to your own hygiene. Especially before having sex, it is best for both of you to take a shower. After a busy day, there must be too many bacteria and viruses on your body.

6. Pay attention to cooperation

When men and women have sex, they should pay attention to their cooperation. Don't think that this sex is something that the man should take the initiative. However, in fact, if the woman does not cooperate, avoids or is unwilling, this will cause unnecessary problems for the newlyweds. psychological disorders.

7. Do good contraception

When you are newly married and have sex for the first time, it is not recommended that you get pregnant immediately. Therefore, it is best to use condoms. This way, you can maintain hygiene and safety and prepare for healthy pregnancy in the future.

8. Don’t joke about sex often

There will always be sexual signals when couples have sex, and the other party should respond positively. Joking a little during sex can also add fun, but it must be moderate. If you often send inappropriate signals during sex, it is like "the wolf is coming." "Similarly, when there is a real request for sex, the partner may misunderstand it as a joke and ignore it, causing conflicts and leaving no trace of love.

9. Don’t force your partner to have sex

There are certain differences in the sexual abilities of men and women, and individual sexual abilities will also decline with age. This is a natural law. Of course, sexual desire is also affected by work, emotion, health, etc. There are always differences in sexual desire between men and women. , so you cannot ask your partner to be consistent, otherwise the intercourse may become mechanical and the "sexual interest" will be lost over time.

Although a spring night is worth a thousand dollars, the sweetness should also be moderate.