When a man marries a woman because of love, the two only need to consider each other before marriage. Of course, the possibility of quarreling between the two is relatively small. However, after marriage, two people have to deal with their children and parents. They have more things to consider, and the possibility of quarrels increases a lot. If two people don't grasp the scale of their quarrel, they may separate because of the quarrel. Then they will fight when they meet, and a good marriage will end like this. It is really a pity.

After a couple quarrels, this is how a wife should reconcile

1. Find the reason why two people quarreled

Only by figuring out why two people are quarreling can we find a reasonable way to solve the problem. It's also the man's fault, maybe it's the woman's fault. Only by finding out the source can two people connect their minds on the same line. Otherwise, apologizing for no reason will only aggravate the misunderstanding between the two people, and the trouble will become bigger and bigger in the future.

2. Give the man some space after the quarrel

After many couples quarrel, the man will just sit on the sofa and smoke to relieve his boredom. The woman will just sit aside and cry and complain about the man. Doing so will only make the other party's anger rise. It is recommended that after the quarrel, the woman go shopping with a good sister to give herself and the other party space to calm down. Only when both people calm down can the crux of the quarrel between the two people be found. When both parties or one party has figured it out and knows where the mistake is, they will naturally take the initiative to admit their mistakes to the other party, or the two people can analyze the problem together calmly and resolve the conflict.

What are the taboos about couples quarreling?

1. Arguing in front of outsiders

Couples will inevitably have bumps and bruises in life, but they must be careful not to quarrel in public. Arguing in front of everyone about some issues will not only fail to resolve them, but will only add fuel to the fire. When arguing in front of everyone, both parties will definitely be desperate to save face and not be outdone, which often leads to the final situation being difficult to deal with. Therefore, good couples should remember to give their lover enough face in front of friends and family. Your attitude towards your lover determines the respect others have for them. If you don't care about him/her, others will look down on him/her.

2. Argue when the other person is vulnerable

Quarreling also has a certain amount of time. If the other person is sick, or is in a depressed mood, or is in an adversity that is not going well at work, you quarreling with him or asking him to blame you will only deepen the conflict between the couple. When the other person is in a vulnerable stage, please put aside all your anger and take good care of and considerate them.

3. Talk about divorce lightly

It is not easy for two people to come together and start a family. Don't say the word "divorce" lightly. Especially when talking about divorce during a quarrel, due to impulsiveness, you will inevitably make wrong choices that you will regret for the rest of your life. "Divorce" is a very sensitive word. Mentioning these words carelessly is very dangerous. It can easily tear the emotional bond between husband and wife and intensify family conflicts. Husband and wife are no longer a matter of two people, but a whole body. Don't give up easily.

4. When quarreling, it affects the other person’s parents and family members

When couples quarrel, do not bring harm to each other's parents and family members. When quarreling, you should not insult each other, let alone insult each other's family members. This must be stopped. Compare each other's feelings and respect the other person's family. If you treat his/her relatives sincerely, he/she will appreciate you from the bottom of his heart and love you even more. It is common for couples to quarrel, but don’t take it too seriously and don’t let your parents know. If you communicate more and understand more, the days will be longer. When you are angry, think more about the good things about the other person.

How can couples enhance their relationship?

1. Sufficient sense of security

When couples trust each other and believe in each other, they can open themselves up more unreservedly without having to suppress themselves to obtain so-called safety.

2. Sense of responsibility

When one party feels that he needs more intimacy, the best way is to take the initiative himself and let the other party know how he feels at this moment, instead of silently waiting for the other party to take the initiative.

3. Pay more attention to each other

The husband and wife must reach a certain consensus and share some deep emotional experiences with each other in a specific space. During this time, you must treat the other party as all your attention.

4. Be honest between husband and wife

In fact, what is most needed between husband and wife is honesty. This honesty includes respect and sensitivity rather than blame and evaluation. It may sound simple, but it is really difficult to do.

5. More physical contact

The contact here has no "sexual" connotation. It refers to any gesture that conveys care, nurturing, appreciation, or other positive emotions.