No matter when and where, couples should stop and enjoy their own moments in bed. A harmonious sex life cannot be restricted by anything. Sex needs innovation and freshness. So how do you keep sex fresh?

What are some tips to keep your sex life fresh?

1. How much are you looking forward to your honeymoon?

After the busy wedding, honeymoon is a great opportunity for newlyweds to relax. Many people have great expectations for honeymoon. Is sex more important than other honeymoon activities? But the reality is that almost half of couples are so tired that they fall asleep on their wedding night! What we have to do is try to be realistic about our honeymoon expectations and not be too idealistic.

2. What are your sexual strengths and weaknesses?

What have been your most pleasurable sexual experiences? Something particularly good that you two have done together? Then, think about areas that could be improved. Remember, there is always room for improvement in your sex life. For example, "We can have more foreplay."

3. How to make sex an important part of life?

Having a consistent, great sex life takes work. You must actively create a time and place for sex. Schedule regular date nights or take a romantic getaway.

4. How do you view the ups and downs of sex life in marriage?

Marriage goes through many things together, including having children, moving, changing jobs, losing a loved one, or going through menopause. All of these life changes can have a major impact on your sex life, causing it to have its ups and downs. You cannot predict the specific time when these changes will occur, but when such life milestones occur, you must be able to actively protect your sex life.

Three sex life mistakes that men all make

Take it for granted”: “The more muscular I am, the more my sexual partner will like me”

Many men blindly pursue a good figure, but not for health. In their imagination, the more muscular they are, the better they can please their partner in bed. However, research has proven that extremely muscular men are not the best sexual partners chosen by most women. Having well-developed muscles is more to satisfy the man's own vanity. The survey shows that the ideal lover figure for women is: gentle eyes, slender limbs, soft and elastic skin, and the biceps and pectoralis major muscles should not be overly developed.

Some women say that muscular men remind them of sexual violence and crude sexual techniques. There are also a large number of women who admit that they dislike muscular men the most, because such women are often subconscious narcissists. They hope that their bodies will be better than men in bed. When a muscular man appears in front of them, they will Often, they immediately feel inferior and fearful, and the subsequent sex becomes boring.

In recent years, the trend has begun to favor androgynous men. They are thin but have soft skin. They are polite to women and seem to have no sense of threat. However, they have become the idols of many women's dreams. This phenomenon has a lot to do with the gradually rising feminist ideology, and it also proves once again that muscular men are no longer popular.

"Take it for granted": "Trying to extend the time for sex will make me appear to be very diligent"

The problem lies in the public's misunderstanding of the sexual process. Women's sexual acquisition is not later than men's, but more passive than men's. Deliberately pursuing a woman's prolonged sex, in addition to causing physical fatigue, is often accompanied by questions from men such as "Are you there?" , the peak that was about to come was also suppressed due to psychological factors. Once orgasm is suppressed during sex, it is difficult to achieve it again. For men, deliberately prolonging the time of making love without having time to enjoy the real pleasure of sex is really not worth the gain.

"Take it for granted": "Men are very attractive when they talk dirty in bed"

Speaking of this, I have to mention the classic work "Sex and the City". Charlotte's lover seems to be a gentle gentleman, but he likes to call her a "bitch" when sex comes, which she really can't tolerate. ; And in real life, there are also many men who are keen on using dirty words during sex, and even take pleasure in teasing each other's sexual organs and sexual performance. They think this is very "manly" and "interesting", but they don't know that most women hate it. It's just that in the environment of making love, they can't object immediately, but they will be vaguely unhappy in their hearts. As time goes by, this dissatisfaction becomes the most terrifying hidden danger.

Sex experts tell us: Only a small number of women like to be treated with foul language in bed. Most women want men to be "powerful", "powerful and reliable", "gentle and skillful" and "know when to stop" in bed. ".