There are few couples who live in harmony and harmony for a lifetime and never have any conflicts or disputes. Friction is inevitable in married life. This kind of minor quarrel can promote the relationship between husband and wife, but the quarrel cannot exceed the bottom line. Otherwise, the conflicts between the two parties will turn from slight friction into hatred and hostility, and the harmonious marriage will be affected.

It hurts a woman the most when a man hits his wife

I have a female friend who has been in love with her boyfriend for three years in college. We both thought they were talented and handsome, but we didn’t expect that they broke up some time ago. The reason was that the boyfriend hit her and she forgave her. She hit him once, but he failed to control himself. After beating her for the second time, she left angrily and never contacted her boyfriend again.

In fact, it is inevitable that there will be some stumbling blocks between husband and wife. It may be excusable for a woman to hit a man, but as a man, if he hits a woman, there will definitely be a crisis in the relationship. When it comes to feelings, men must not be violent, otherwise it will hurt the woman's heart, and it will be too late to stabilize his own emotions, hurt others, and hurt himself.

Public extramarital affairs bring marriage to an end

After a couple has been married for a long time, the novelty and passion gradually diminish and are replaced by a life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. In such a marriage, if the relationship is not properly maintained, one party or the other party will easily have an extramarital affair. If the other party does not know about this kind of extramarital affair or is not sure about it, then the relationship between husband and wife may still be maintained. However, if the extramarital affair is made public, the couple will no longer be able to move forward together.

Don’t scold each other’s close relatives

Some people say that "fighting is love, and scolding is love." Occasionally, oral sex disputes between husband and wife are inevitable, but if you scold each other's relatives, especially the other's biological parents, because of a little conflict, it will be difficult for the other party to accept. Although there is no blood relationship between husband and wife, they are the closest people. If one party scolds the other's parents, the two may immediately quarrel or fight.

Mutual accusations and complaints can easily destroy a harmonious life

Mutual understanding and tolerance are very important for couples. If you cannot be considerate of each other and often criticize and accuse each other, then your marriage cannot maintain harmony. Because blaming will arouse the other party's dislike, if a husband or wife despises the other party, ridicules the other party, or shirks the responsibility for certain things on the other party, it will definitely cause the partner to retaliate and become angry, thus causing the relationship to break up.

Therefore, if you want to ensure a happy and harmonious family, you must be tolerant, considerate, and tolerant of each other. Only in this way can you reduce conflicts and friction and avoid emotional frustration.

Between husband and wife, take a step back and the world will be brighter

In fact, there are many frequent conflicts between husband and wife, which can easily cause people to have thoughts such as "they are not suitable for each other" or "the personalities are too different". They may even firmly believe that there is something wrong with the other party's personality or value orientation, and try to use it to solve the problem. Various ways to correct it. In order to correct it, she will try various methods. If a husband obediently changes his personality or living habits for his wife, this is of course a good thing. Otherwise, a rift will appear between them.

When a husband and wife live together, one party does not have to live according to the standards of the other party. After all, they are both adults. If the wife always stubbornly and repeatedly asks the other party to correct their mistakes or shortcomings, the conflict between the two people will become A chain reaction occurs, and negative emotions will continue to intensify.

It is not easy for a couple to stay together, and it is even more difficult to get along until old age. Therefore, don’t stubbornly ask the other person to look at you. If you see the other person’s dissatisfaction, you might as well take a step back and the world will be brighter.