In today's society, men's sexual anxiety is growing day by day. Nearly 70% of men admitted that they sometimes reject their wives because they are afraid that they are not good enough. Because in the eyes of men, sex is the embodiment of male virility and essence. The quality of sexual performance not only affects a man's entire life, but also becomes the source of his inner anxiety.

Three major sources of sexual anxiety in men

1. Mental weakness triggers sexual anxiety

Anhui and her husband have not had a harmonious sex life for several months. Since her husband's factory was acquired by others, he has been unemployed at home; while Anhui was recently promoted to department manager by the company, and her career is booming. What Anhui didn't expect was that the sharp contrast in career would cause her husband to lose all his masculinity and increase his psychological pressure. And the mental weakness was transmitted through the body, making him anxiously discover that he really "can't do it anymore."

Tips: Mental weakness manifests itself as low mood, disturbance of consciousness, and avoidance. The sexual anxiety caused by it in men must be resolved by the wife's emotion and understanding.

2. Failure experience makes him sexually anxious

Manyun’s husband had just finished studying in Shanghai. Within two days of returning home, he applied for another business trip for half a month. Manyun cried on the phone and asked her husband the truth, but the answer was beyond her expectation. He said that he always felt anxious when having sex with her, fearing that he would fail again, and had no choice but to escape.

Tips: For men with sexual anxiety, their emotions and sex have been separated and they are unable to devote themselves wholeheartedly. They are like a picky audience, paying too much attention to their every move. At this time, what the wife needs to do most is to start with the details and gradually enhance the emotion and intimacy between the two, thereby eliminating the husband's anxiety and fear.

3. Being anxious about your partner’s orgasm

Xiaofan's husband is a meticulous and sensitive man. Every time he has sex, his kisses and touches can make Lu Xi feel all kinds of tenderness in her heart. However, not every time there is peak happiness. After all, climax is hard to come by. But he just didn't believe it, thinking that his ability was limited and he couldn't satisfy his wife, so he became anxious and depressed.

Tips: Men have very high requirements for sex. When he feels that he cannot satisfy the other person, he will have severe tension and anxiety. The wife might as well patiently explain to him that climax is wonderful, but even if there is no climax, she still enjoys the joy of being in bed with him.

In most cases, people with sexual anxiety have normal sexual excitement and orgasmic responses, and they also have sexual desires. Therefore, sexual anxiety is not terrible, and patients with sexual anxiety must learn to overcome it.

Men should not think of sexual anxiety as too scary

Maybe you think that sexual anxiety is a scourge. Maybe when you know that your boyfriend or husband has sexual anxiety, you will feel that you will be a widow for the rest of your life. Maybe you will choose to leave... In fact, there is no need to be so panicked, because Every man has sexual anxiety, but the situation is severe.

In most cases, people with sexual anxiety have normal sexual excitement and orgasmic responses, and they also have sexual desires. It's just that they are unable to complete normal sexual intercourse satisfactorily due to inexplicable anxiety reactions, or they reduce sexual intercourse in order to avoid anxiety. To prevent and treat sexual anxiety, necessary sexual knowledge education is very important.

Some men often say that they should go home and do their homework, which means having sex. In a man's mind, having sex with his wife is like giving homework, which is a bit of a coping style, so they are not keen on it.

Let men feel from the bottom of their hearts that sex life is a pleasure, not an operational burden; sex life is a natural function that everyone can do naturally without too much anxiety.

When couples have sex, they communicate with each other through words or actions, enjoy sex in a harmonious and stress-free state, and gradually reduce or eliminate sexual anxiety.

The above introduction is the real situation of sexual anxiety. I hope it will be helpful to everyone. In fact, sexual anxiety is not terrible. Men must pay attention to overcoming this kind of psychology.