Mencius said: "The nature of food and color is also the nature of food." Everyone has sexual instinct, which includes three elements, namely hormones, emotions and sexual fantasies. In other words, they are body, mind and soul. No matter what age group, good emotions, appropriate sexual fantasies and normal sex hormones are necessary to have harmonious sex.

However, when hormones are secreted strongly when young, there will be deficiencies in relationships. However, at a certain age, when relationships are stable, hormones will gradually decrease and sexual fantasies will also weaken.

Only by taking measures to prevent the three factors from ebbing and flowing, can the quality of sexual life be guaranteed.

Sexual impulse is not enough to maintain sex

In the life of the two sexes, the emotions between men and women can be divided into four periods: the passionate period (honeymoon period or early marriage), the conflict period (mutual adaptation) period), transfer period (parenting period) and deep period (returning to the world of two). If normal sex hormones are the cornerstone of a harmonious relationship, then good emotions are the fusion agent, and appropriate sexual fantasies are the catalyst.

Usually, young people have normal sex hormones and rich sexual fantasies, but physical and imaginative impulses often dilute the emotional factors. In real life, it is not uncommon for college students to break up as soon as they graduate and young couples to divorce as soon as their honeymoon is over. This is the reason. If the emotional relationship is not handled well, then pure physical impulse is not enough to maintain good sex.

Therefore, young people should respect, understand, tolerate, and adapt to each other. In particular, they should learn to accept all the advantages and disadvantages of each other, and use emotional fusion agents to make the newly established relationship between the sexes more stable.

Emotional transfer makes sex lack passion

The situation of middle-aged people is different from that of young people. They spend most of their thoughts on raising their children and working on their careers, and their emotions are in a transition period, stable but lacking in passion. At the same time, the approach to menopause will cause sex hormone levels to gradually decrease. The body and mind are gradually moving away from sweetness, and it is dangerous if this situation is not changed.

For middle-aged people, the best way is to appropriately increase sexual fantasies. That is, self-stimulation through thinking activities in an awake state or a sleep-like state, which is a self-performed sexual behavior.

The content of sexual fantasies is undoubtedly full of erotic color. It can occur on its own or during masturbation or sexual intercourse. An American sexual psychology consultant gave the example of a middle-aged man who had always been satisfied with his sex life. For many years, he had fantasized about his wife being plump and pretty when she was young, and the two of them kept changing the time and place of sex, the bedroom, and the way they had sex. Memories of their sex were left in the kitchen and bathroom, and the boredom between the couple was eliminated little by little.

Lack of sex hormones leads to low sexual desire

Sex is a lifelong behavior. Whether it is sexual ability or sexual needs, they are not lost after entering old age. However, as sex hormone levels further decrease, middle-aged and elderly people after the age of 50 will develop a series of sexual performance problems such as low sexual desire and sexual arousal disorders. Fortunately, with the help of modern medicine, professional doctors can use hormone replacement therapy and drug treatment to improve the sexual status of the elderly. Of course, increasing sexual fantasies also has a certain effect on them.

It should be noted that in real life, many young people do not believe that their parents will "do such things", and often ruthlessly separate their parents and let one of them look after their children for many years; many The elderly themselves will be ashamed to continue their sexual life and maintain the so-called dignity of the elderly in depression and pain, which will cause great harm to the elderly's body and mind.

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