The probability of divorce is very high in today’s society. Not only are men more likely to cheat, but women are also very easy to cheat. Moreover, many women cheat because their husbands do not understand women and are usually chauvinistic and do not tolerate each other. , coupled with the fact that society is more complicated now, wives are cheating more often. Let’s learn about the reasons why your wife cheats and how to deal with it.

There are 3 major reasons why your wife cheats

1. The husband is a narcissist. He does not give his wife enough intimate attention. He does not consider that it takes longer for his wife to reach sexual excitement and orgasm. He only cares about his own excitement and unbearable desire to ejaculate, and abandons his wife. behind. If this happens for a long time, the wife will be depressed. If she is a little more capable, she will think of other tricks, such as Hongxing's cheating, to compensate.

2. If you have been married for more than 3-5 years, the sexual attraction between men and women will naturally weaken because they are too familiar with each other. If a couple, especially the husband, lacks sexual knowledge and creativity, lacks the initiative to find ways to understand his wife's requirements, and lacks the desire to keep learning to try new sexual forms and positions and reach a tacit understanding with his wife, over time, the wife will find various ways to Excuses and reasons for refusing to have sex with her husband lead to seeking sexual stimulation and satisfaction outside of marriage.

3. The husband does not pay enough attention to himself, looks slovenly, does not pay attention to healthy eating and exercise, and makes himself pregnant. Women are like men, and a man’s sexy and healthy image is also a very important sexual excitement point for women!

When a wife cheats, many times it is because the husband does not use the language of love correctly and does not give his wife the correct and appropriate love.

How should a husband deal with his wife cheating?

1. When your wife cheats, if she doesn’t know that you have discovered it, you can pretend not to know, but deliberately remove the conditions for her cheating. You need to reflect on this: Are you too unmotivated to make her respect you? Do you spend too little time with her? Is there nothing in common to do? Are you failing to satisfy her sexual cravings? Did you fail to let her receive the message that you love her? After reflection, it’s time to act immediately. Because you are a man, you should take the initiative in doing things. You should make yourself better and take on the responsibilities you deserve. Your actions make her look up to you again.

2. You should spend more time playing with her and reminisce about the good times of your past love together. You can let your female relatives become her close friends, play with her, keep track of her movements at any time, and persuade her in a timely manner to quietly change her mind. You can let her focus on supporting your career and helping your children grow up, so that she has no time to worry about other men. You can secretly find an expert to regulate your body and mind and strengthen your sexual function, so that she can again enjoy the overwhelming sex when you were passionately in love. Of course, as you age, the intensity and frequency of sexual life may not be the same as when you were passionately in love, but if you are smart, you should have the patience and skills to do enough foreplay to make her fascinated and almost be able to do it before having sex. Reaching climax...

3. Real actions speak louder than words. Your hard work will definitely win back your wife’s heart. After all, women are not willing to take this step until they can't bear the divorce. When the affair is revealed, as a man, you must first look for the reasons within yourself, do self-criticism, and express how you will love your wife in the future. Let the wife tell the story of the affair, whether she was temporarily confused or determined to abandon the family. If she is moved by your magnanimity and sincerity, she will tell you clearly about her cheating, and whether she has feelings for that man, she will also tell you frankly. This is precisely the biggest difference between women and men.

When faced with questioning from their wives, men are often only willing to tell the consequences, such as "Don't worry, I won't have anything to do with her in the future," but their actions often go against the grain. But a woman is different, she does what she says. Of course, if the wife is determined to be good with that man, she will say so. If you have a child, impress her with maternal love. If she is still unmoved, you might as well grant her wish and cooperate with her in getting a divorce. Please believe that after the divorce, there is a 90% certainty that she will come back.

4. It is worth reminding that research shows that the age when women are most likely to have an affair is around 45 years old. Because at this time, they worry less about their children and are tired of the same sex partner. At the same time, they have the opportunity to meet more men, which inadvertently increases the probability of cheating. What's even more terrible is that after age 40, the proportion of testosterone in many women's bodies increases and estrogen and progesterone decrease relatively. This makes women's sexual impulses increase and they pay more attention to whether their sexual needs can be met. If men are having sex, If you only care about your own pleasure and don't take into account whether your wife reaches orgasm, your wife will be extremely uncomfortable. Therefore, I once again emphasize that men in this period must learn to satisfy women and accompany her to reach climax first. Your climax will come easily.