In today's society, men and women are open and open-minded, so it is easy for one-night stands to happen! One-night stands can give people the excitement of curiosity, the pleasure of sex, and the release of desires, so those who have the conditions and high emotional intelligence can easily have one-night stands.

One-night stands usually occur in entertainment venues, such as bars and KTVs. They also often occur between male and female online friends. Sometimes they also occur between strangers, acquaintances or friends. The ultimate goal is to obtain sex overnight.

Why are you opposed to one-night stands and list the ten harmful effects of one-night stands:

1: Waste of money

Since it is a one-night stand, I am sure that more than 95% of men and women will not choose to have sex in their own homes, but usually rent a room outside. Sometimes, there are urgent men and women who make phone calls, and enthusiastically fly thousands of miles away by plane, train or car to meet netizens. Afterwards, the generous men and women will give each other souvenirs. However, this kind of friendship that only sows without reaping often ends in parting ways.

You thought you were so happy and intoxicated after getting a beauty for one night, but would you have thought that when you woke up the next morning, your beauty disappeared along with your wallet and valuables? There is also divorce, fines, reputational damage, etc. A lot of money will be lost!

What if someone you know gets pregnant once?

Although everyone has the concept of contraception, many one-night stands occur after drinking. Without preparation, measures may not be taken at that time. Emergency contraceptive pills can only be taken once a month. If one-night stands occur frequently without safety measures and the woman becomes pregnant, she may not even know who the father is. This kind of thing has been exposed a lot in the media.

Two: Waste of feelings

Since it is a one-night stand, it emphasizes excitement and comfort, and is difficult to associate with lasting love or marriage. Even men and women who have a very happy conversation on the Internet are eager to end it early because they want to forget everything about it after meeting to have sex. This style of doing things caused the relationship between the two to cool down quickly, and then tomorrow, across the mountains, everything was unclear.

If you are not a person with abnormal thoughts or cold feelings, you will be hurt by such lightning feelings: It is not easy to love someone, and it is even harder to forget someone. What's more, society is so indifferent, and we always long to find someone who understands and loves us. However, men and women in one-night stands seem helpless and indifferent to each other. After sexual solicitation, the relationship is not sublimated, but instead creates an emotional vacuum.

Three: Immoral

We do not deny that among the men and women who recognize and enjoy one-night stands, there are people with relatively high cultural quality, and they also have affection for each other, but think about it: if the body is like a firewood stick, insert it this way, rub it there, forget the warmth of your lover Emotions, betrayal of wives or husbands, and loss of the family moral code that humans all abide by, then this group of people will evolve into promiscuity and bad sex in the future, which will have a very bad impact and create an incentive for others. This kind of behavior is undoubtedly a huge damage to society, family and recognized ethical principles, and will cause tragedy and even lead to murder.

Four: Damage to the body

Some people think that the sexual partner they are looking for is safe as long as they are not soliciting prostitutes, so they will not take protective measures. This idea often learns a painful lesson. To break it down, if your sexual partner is willing to have sex with you, that means someone else is, too. Sexually transmitted diseases are spread through this kind of chaotic sexual behavior

Sexual intercourse is actually extremely dangerous without carefully asking about the other person's medical history. Some people think that using contraceptives will prevent you from contracting sexually transmitted diseases. In fact, among the many contraceptive tools, only condoms have this dual function, which can prevent pregnancy and prevent sexually transmitted diseases. However, the effectiveness of any protection is not 100%, and in a loveless relationship, any accident is likely to happen. Moreover, because each other knows almost nothing about the other's past sexual experience and health status, it is very likely that this "once" infection will be infected with sexually transmitted diseases such as gonorrhea, genital herpes, genital warts, syphilis, and even AIDS, which will regret it for life.

If you unfortunately win the lottery and get sexually transmitted diseases or AIDS, it will cost you your body and your life. If you infect others, it will be even worse.

Since one-night stands are often carried out in an extremely excited state, both parties often lack the necessary "foreplay" preparation. The man is prone to rough movements and lacks skills, which will inevitably cause inflammation and trauma to the reproductive tract, such as male penis contusion, Incarceration, congestion and edema, etc. Women are prone to vaginismus, local abrasions, vaginal tears, heavy bleeding, etc.

Five: Numb and sincere emotions

The most disturbing thing is that men and women who are keen on one-night stands generally have doubts about the sincere emotions of human beings. Most of them believe that people are just animals for pleasure. Loyalty and honest feelings do not exist in the world. Their words and deeds do not have to be harmful to anyone or any family. and any unit collectively responsible. If it's good, it'll be one night; if it's bad, it'll be a one-night stand again. In the face of normal marriage, he issued a mocking satire: marriage is poison, and one-night stand is the ultimate happiness in the world.

Six: Loss of integrity, potentially huge risks

Men and women who are keen on one-night stands generally do not keep their promises. What do you think of this? We all know that people with a little knowledge want to have sex with like-minded friends of the opposite sex. Before having sex, both parties will face each other and make vows on the Internet. Once they succeed, they will immediately stop dating. For those experienced in one-night stands, they will disappear without a trace, let alone continue to communicate or help each other.

For men and women who have families, lovers, and workplaces, sometimes in order to conceal their one-night stands, they often use deceptive methods to gain trust and disguise themselves. What's more, they will use sweet words to defraud relatives and friends out of their money to meet netizens for one-night stands.

So, can you continue to trust these people living among us whose words and deeds are inconsistent? Can you accept it calmly?

One-night stands are not as simple as you think. Sometimes, it will also involve some inexplicable entanglements, such as the entanglement of the other party. That is a very annoying thing, and if not handled properly, it can lead to even greater disasters.

Seven: Destroying social order and stability,

Once they encounter a man or woman who is ruthless, ruthless and has ulterior motives, they will secretly film the sexual intercourse scene during a one-night stand in order to obtain the capital to extract money from the other party in the future. If there are desperate and vicious men and women, they will kill innocent people or take revenge on others.

Some beautiful women went to get a room with you. But when you were taking off your clothes, a few burly men rushed in and said that you had bullied his woman. At this time, the beauty also pretended to be aggrieved, as if you really bullied her. As a result, a group of them want to keep you private. In the end, not only will you lose both your life and money, but you may also get a beating. Such an encounter will hurt your body and mind, and even affect your future life. There are reports that someone dated a woman online with the intention of murdering her. Therefore, it is a very dangerous behavior to meet a stranger through the Internet and then have a one-night stand.

Eight: Destroying family harmony

A thin woman once asked while eating rice noodles in a snack bar: Are the Internet and QQ really so attractive? She said her husband used to be very family-oriented and loved her and her son very much. Because after I learned to chat on QQ with my colleagues, I often received countless photos of women at home. My husband often wakes up late at night or takes time off to meet his female online friends. She even added him on QQ to meet her husband to help him get back on track. From then on, the husband continued to care about the quality of the family and never cared about the food and clothing of his son and wife. He spent all his salary on meeting female netizens (this man must be a master of one-night stands). There is also a male reporter who started looking for one-night stands after being emotionally hurt, and he never tired of it. From this point of view, one-night stand can change a person and a family greatly.

A man who has a one-night stand will inevitably not have another one. Sex addiction will occur over time, especially among athletes, such as Chamberlain, followed by Woods, Terry, Ronaldo, and now the controversial Acol, etc., which all resulted in the separation of wives and the loss of reputation. What's more, for ordinary men, one-night stands will not end well.

Nine: Impact on work

Men and women who often have one-night stands often spend their time thinking of beautiful words before making love, frequently calling each other, sending e-mails, staying up late to chat via QQ, voice chat, video chat, etc. With so much energy spent, where can I focus on work?

Ten: Toward the end

If a person takes a one-night stand as a pleasure and vows not to look back, then waiting for him or her is asking for death. why would you say so? Men and women who are irresponsible to their family, society, others, and relationships, who indulge in alcohol and pleasure without restraint, will surely give up on themselves. This is an automatic abandonment and contempt for career and family. If a man or woman who likes one-night stands has a little self-esteem in his wife or her husband, they will not tolerate their partner betraying them, which will eventually lead to family divorce. Even if the other party is only a lover, they will choose to leave. These men and women who like to find one-night stands usually have career decline, and in serious cases, they will lose their jobs and lose their reputation.

If you want to maintain a peaceful life, be high-spirited and healthy physically and mentally, cherish the relationship with your lover, and maintain the purity and calmness of your marriage, please resist the unpredictable external temptations and stay away from one-night stands!