Ms. Hu said, "When I was in love, I felt very good about my husband. But once I got married, that feeling was completely destroyed. To be honest, I really hope that I can be in love forever without getting married." Miss Hu complained. . Her husband was rough during sex and it hurt her the first time. The pain lasted for three days.

As a result, she developed a fear of sex and was unwilling to have sex. Ms. Hu said that even though they had been married for two years, her husband still hurt her every time they had sex and did not care about her at all.

The doctor talked to Ms. Hu’s husband alone. "From the time we fell in love to after we got married, I cared about her in every possible way, but she was never satisfied with me.

" Ms. Hu's husband said angrily to the doctor, "Everyone with some common sense understands that it is not painful for a woman to have sex for the first time. But she couldn't even stand this and scolded me for being rude and like an animal. I was so angry that I said back to her: "Who do you think you are?" Princess and the Pea? Then just don't get married. The evening turned out to be quite unpleasant.

Ms. Hu admitted that she has been prone to anxiety since she was a child, is extremely sensitive to pain, and is most afraid of vaccinations. In other aspects, he also appears to be squeamish and dependent. Her parents always cared for her meticulously, and even let her sleep with her mother until she was in the sixth grade of elementary school because she was afraid of the dark.

And Miss Hu’s father always hugs her at every turn. He believes that his daughter's skin is so delicate that if she bumps into it accidentally, she will suffer a lot and may even get scars, so he hugs her when the road is a little difficult to walk, and even pushes her to school on rainy days. I am always worried that my daughter will slip and fall when she walks on her own.

Parents who adopt an overprotective attitude always believe that as long as they provide their children with enough love and care, they can eliminate their children's anxiety. As a result, their children are unable to establish a spirit of independence and will never learn to face and overcome alone. difficulties and obstacles in reality. Including one's own psychological barriers.

Therefore, once they develop a fear of sex, they will only expect others to solve it for them. Rather than adopting a positive attitude, make self-regulation, and cooperate with her husband and doctor to improve this phenomenon.

Children who have been cared for by their parents because of their anxiety tendencies from an early age often develop a self-centered mentality. Parents' overprotection makes them feel that because they are timid and cowardly, they should enjoy the privilege of being cared for. If they are not satisfied, they will lose their temper at their parents or people close to them, accusing people of not giving them enough care in time. .