Men are often in the main position during sex, but in fact, most men are sullen and coquettish, and they just can’t say anything. Some of these problems are not considered, and some may affect couples. of life. In fact, men can think about it carefully. You are a husband and wife who want to live together for a lifetime. Is there anything else that cannot be communicated about? So you can open your heart and have a good talk, and you may gain something unexpected.

Some little secrets about men’s sex

1. Men are afraid of rejection.

When your husband sends sexual signals to you, he is expressing more than just sexual requirements. His subconscious is saying: "You must accept me." If you say: "No! No!", "I "Too tired" and so on, he will feel that his self-esteem has been hurt. At this time, men may lack their usual tolerance and suddenly feel dissatisfied. If you frequently reject his sexual requests, he may stop pursuing this type of courtship, and you may have emotional problems. Worse still, he may seek sex from others to gain a sense of "acceptance."

Don’t completely reject your husband’s advances. It doesn’t mean you have to obey him, but you should understand that this is a man’s vulnerability. You can say: “I love you very much, but I’m too tired from work today. I’ll do it tomorrow morning.” " Or say: "I'm not interested at all right now. Let's just hug and wait and see how I feel, okay? " In short, you haven't "entered the state" yet. You can explain to him in tactful language. He will feel better. A flat refusal or too many blaming words are inappropriate.

2. Men like women to be more proactive.

The wife should occasionally act as a "sexual attacker" because men like women to show their interest in sex. They often express great enthusiasm and curiosity about women's "sexual interest", and it is up to the woman to mobilize them. Men's sexual awareness often receives unexpected results. In addition, if a man always takes the active role in sex life, he may feel that it is the same and lacks new ideas, and he will always run the risk of being rejected. He'd like you to be in his position, so you'll understand how important it is for his sexual signals to be accepted.

3. Men like women who have a sense of humor.

Laughing is a way for men to relax their mental tension. Men often feel the pressure of responsibilities and they need to relax by laughing. So, when your husband tries to be humorous and you refuse to participate, he will feel that you lack understanding of him and may even feel that you are judging his behavior and performance. If a woman learns to laugh with her husband in and out of bed, or often expresses some humorous words and actions herself, life will be more fun and his "sexual" interest will be doubled.

4. Men usually don’t like to talk during sex.

Research shows that men generally don’t like to talk to their wives during sex. When you say, “Honey, I like the feeling of being close,” what you hear may be a few short and unclear sounds. Discourse. If you always talk about trivial matters in life or work during sex, the man may express some impatience, and at this time, you may feel left out. In fact, he was too involved in the behavioral center of the right hemisphere of the brain and the language function could not function. If you ask him how he feels about having sex, he may prefer to remain silent because talking may distract from his passion. Of course, this doesn't mean you can't talk, but don't be disappointed if he doesn't say a word.

There are also several disgusting things that women have during sex

01. Ask not to wear a condom every time

Woman Say NO Index: ****

Reason: It’s all men who enjoy it, but we are responsible for the consequences!

Unless God allows men to get pregnant and give birth to children, we will definitely support it with both hands!

02. I want to try the feeling of entering from behind

Women Say NO Index: ****

Reason: If a man was willing to let me stick a banana in his butt, I would consider it. What's more, I ate too many sweet potatoes and corn kernels that are difficult to digest today...!

03. In the middle of the romance, he suddenly pulled out and asked me to give him a blowjob

Women Say NO Index: *****

Reason: Oh my God! Although romance is a very sexual thing, you should also pay attention to the order!