After you get married, this man seems to belong to you completely, but as a woman, you will have some worries, fearing that your husband will be snatched away one day.

In fact, if you are a perfect wife, a man will not give up on you easily. With only 7 tricks, he will have to be with you in his life.

1. Don’t compare

Comparison between people is very irritating. Don't praise other people's husbands in front of your husband, and don't criticize him for being useless. Because you are his closest lover, you should encourage and support him and be his spiritual backing. If you always compare him with others, over time he will stay away from your love nest and away from you.

2. Don’t show off your face

No one likes to look at other people's faces, and no one wants to put a hot face on a cold butt. So don't show off to your husband just because you are a little unhappy, as this will make a man's life very tiring. If you are unhappy, you can talk to your husband and seek comfort. Tolerance is a virtue. Take a step back and learn to let go of the unpleasant things and be happy every day.

3. Give your husband face

You can bully your husband when there are no outsiders around, and your husband won't blame you because he loves you. But you must give your husband face in front of outsiders and don't embarrass him. Be a well-educated woman.

4. Don’t deprive him of his love for beauty

Heart of beauty in everyone. When you see a handsome guy or a stylish man, you can't help but look at her a few more times. The same goes for men. When you see a beautiful woman, you also want to look at her a few more times, but only for a moment. Don't take away this freedom from him.

5. Be a gentle woman

Men all like women who are as gentle as water. Such a woman will make him slowly move his heart towards you. They are also very fragile and need a spiritual haven. They should be gentler to their husbands and let them indulge in your tenderness and be unable to extricate themselves.

6. What’s his is yours

His things are your things, and in the same way, his parents are also your parents. You should love your family and be kind to his parents. You should have a good relationship with your parents-in-law, and don't let your husband get in the middle. To be a good wife and daughter-in-law, as long as you treat others sincerely, others will also treat you sincerely.

7. Don’t be unreasonable

Many women will argue with their husbands over trivial matters in life. You should stop it in moderation, don't hold on to the other person's pigtails and hold on to them for a lifetime. This will only make the man feel bored with you, and the relationship will slowly change over time. Don't let him think you are a bitch, keep your good image in his mind.

There are also hidden rules for men to choose their wives

If a woman does not understand the unspoken rules in the process of a man marrying a woman, it will be like a blind man trying to find an elephant in a haystack. What are the unspoken rules for a man to marry a woman?

1. The past - innocence is the best

Women often like to investigate a man's past in order to have further interactions. In fact, men also like to investigate women's pasts, especially the ones they like and want to marry home. Men have to investigate their pasts meticulously. A man will not marry a girl who is too sexually open or has a lot of experience.

2. Now - the truest self is the best

In the early days of love, in order to show their happiness, many people are used to hiding their true selves, which creates an illusion. But men are very cautious when choosing marriage partners, and some people even use some tricks to spy on women's hearts.

Although women will be very angry about this, sometimes women also use some tricks to spy on men. In fact, everyone's purpose is the same, just to understand each other's truer side. After all, there are fundamental differences between choosing a marriage partner and choosing a playmate.

3. Family - it is best to have a certain economic foundation

Although men do not necessarily value a woman's family status too much, at the very least, each other's families should be well matched. Only in this way can a man identify a woman. What's more, in today's reality of high pressure in life, the financial foundation of both parents will also be transmitted to the quality of life of the young couple.

Therefore, if the boy does not yet have the ability to support the girl's parents, and the girl herself does not have this ability, it is okay to fall in love, but there will be a lot of pressure in life after marriage. What's more, marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families. With the financial foundation as a guarantee, future marriages will be happier and happier.

4. Appearance - ordinary is best

Love is different from marriage. For the sake of aesthetics, men can choose to be friends with beautiful women when they are in love to satisfy their vanity, but this only occurs in the love stage. When it's time to get married, men often don't choose such a woman. After all, marrying a woman who is too beautiful is too dazzling, and he has to be on guard all the time.

Moreover, beautiful women also have high requirements for material life, and they do not know how to take care of the family and manage finances. Marriage means facing a life of daily necessities together, so marrying an average-looking wife will be very beneficial.