There are some things men want to know, like that we love them, appreciate them, are proud of them, and think they are the best. But there are some things men don't want to know. This is their restricted area and minefield. Women should not visit it, let alone step on it, otherwise, their emotions will be blown away.

1. What did she do with her previous boyfriend

Spokesperson: Xiao Ma, 28 years old

She always talks about her past, intentionally or unintentionally How good her boyfriend was to her, what happened when they were in love, and they were told in great detail. I actually really didn't want to hear it. I hated the thoughtful look on her face when she told the story, and I also hated the fact that she deliberately said this to make me angry.

2. How many men has she had relations with?

Spokesperson: Ye Fox, 32 years old

She was no longer a virgin when she got married. care. But occasionally there will still be a burst of sour water. I actually really want to know how many boyfriends she has had. To be clear, I am curious about how many men she has had relationships with. I want to know, but I am afraid of knowing, so in the end I would rather not know.

3. How does she evaluate the quality of our life as a couple?

Spokesperson: Azhi, 35 years old

After we have sex, she always analyzes my performance in detail. Sometimes speaking very directly makes me a little intolerable. Women doing this will put a lot of pressure on men. She does this in front of me, and I don’t know what she said about me when she was with her girlfriends. In short, she wouldn’t have anything nice to say about me, so I don’t know what’s best.

IV. What did she do on a suspicious night (did Hongxing cheat on her occasionally)

Speaker: Polar Bear, 30 years old

I don’t want to think about this The things I know can also be said to be the things I want to know most, but now I don’t have the courage to bear the “what if” truth. That was when I was on a business trip to Guizhou. One night, I called her home landline in the early morning and she didn't answer. I called her mobile phone again. There was very little music playing there. She said she was watching TV. I Asked why the landline was not answered. She was a little panicked and said she had just gone to the bathroom and said maybe the phone was broken. To this day I don't know what happened to her that night. If it would hurt, I would suppress my curiosity and prefer not to know.

5. Does she envy others who marry better than her?

Speaker: Rain, 29 years old

I work diligently every day, but unfortunately, I cannot give her a full life. I don’t know if she ever resented me or regretted marrying me. If the answer is yes, then I'd rather not know.

6. The trivial things that happened to her in the office

Spokesperson: The sky is blue after the rain, 32 years old

When I was still single at the age of 30, My biggest wish is to be able to lie on the bed holding hands with someone I love and chatting about everyday things. Now I have quickly become a bad man wandering in the colorful world. From this, I deeply understand that there is a reason behind every bad man. My reason was that I couldn't stand her nagging at all. As soon as I got home, she started to report everything that happened during the day to me in detail, especially the trivial things in the office, including who farted. Tell me all. In fact, I am really not interested in these things and I don’t want to know at all.

7. Who will I be with if she leaves?

Speaker: Cat, 29 years old

A breakup is irreversible, but after a breakup, I don’t know Which asshole she chooses to be with. Men and women are greedy animals. They always want the people they once loved and those who loved them to wait for them all their lives. Therefore, even if they no longer love her, knowing that she has started a new life will still inevitably make her feel sad. I wish I didn’t know.

Analysis

Conclusion A: Men can know a general outline of a woman’s past, but they absolutely don’t want to know the details. Therefore, a woman must not confess all the details of her relationship with her ex-boyfriend to her current boyfriend in a frank manner, even if he sometimes asks for details - don't think that if he is asking, it means that he wants to know. In fact, rationally Men tend to be deaf to these things, and he was only temporarily losing his mind.

Conclusion B: Most couples will have some "suspicious nights". Most men who want to save their families would rather pretend not to know about these "suspicious nights".

Since they are already controlling their curiosity, women should just pretend to have forgotten. Maybe you feel guilty, but don't confess. Confession at this time is emotional poison.

Conclusion C: When it comes to sex, men are under greater mental pressure than women, so most of them are unwilling to know how women evaluate him in front of outsiders. In this case, women shouldn't make too many negative comments in front of him! Perhaps encouragement is more useful than derogation.

Conclusion D: Don’t tell men about trivial things at work. Most men are not interested in this. And you will become a nagging old woman in his mind. It must be admitted that men are often forced out by women.

Conclusion E: Men don’t want to know that women have a new love after a breakup, but women don’t necessarily have to follow his wishes. Why not let him know? Life is more beautiful without him.