When young men and women get married nowadays, having a wedding ceremony has become an indispensable entertainment thing. However, what many people don’t know is that having a wedding ceremony is actually a different kind of sexual suggestion. What is going on? Let’s take a look. Having sex in the bridal chamber is also a kind of sex education. As the saying goes: "A new daughter-in-law has no age for three days." After entering the room, both men and women, old and young, can enter the room to "see the new daughter-in-law" and tease the bride with meat and vegetable dishes, deliberately turning the originally shy yellow flower girl into a bride. Become a generous and shrewish daughter-in-law.

Nowadays, getting married means finding a good time and auspicious days to have a wedding banquet, but you may not know that there are many things to pay attention to in traditional Chinese marriage customs. These customs such as choosing the wedding day, making wedding arrangements, and returning home in three days are not feudal superstition or red tape, but are closely related to sexual health.

Sex cannot be avoided when getting married, but sex is the most taboo topic for Chinese people. Therefore, the wise ancestors came up with many seemingly elegant and scientific methods around sex. These methods became Customs that everyone must abide by.

The wedding day will definitely avoid the bride’s menstrual period

In the past, you had to choose an auspicious day to get married, which was called a "happy day" or "look at the day." Generally, the man would find a local Feng Shui master to calculate the best auspicious day for the wedding based on the zodiac signs and birth dates of both men and women. After the "happy day" is decided, the man will entrust the matchmaker to bring some gifts to the woman's home to "send the day".

If the woman’s family accepts this date, then the happy day will be decided. If the woman's family returns the date, it means there is something wrong with the date and needs to be reset. So what exactly could be the problem?

It's not that it's an unlucky day, it's mainly that it happens to coincide with a girl's menstrual period, and sex is not allowed during menstruation. At this time, the man's parents will bring gifts and ask the Feng Shui master again to help him live. The date chosen by the Feng Shui master this time will definitely be about 15 days later or earlier than last time.

Because people cannot ask straightforward questions about menstrual periods, which are extremely sensitive issues, so they use this "happy date" method to solve this difficult problem. The matchmaker will send a new happy day, and the mother's family will follow. However, we all know that the menstrual period is delayed or advanced by about 15 days, which happens to be the ovulation period of women. In the past, there were no good contraceptive measures, so it was not uncommon for newlyweds to get pregnant on their honeymoon.

Modern medicine has proven that newlyweds are not suitable to have children due to factors such as fatigue and drinking. Therefore, although the Feng Shui masters at that time knew how to choose a date, they did not know much about reproductive health.

There is another way to "pick wedding days", which is for the Feng Shui master to choose two days at once, one in the first half of the month and one in the second half of the month, for the bride's mother to choose, also to avoid the bride's menstrual period.