There are still quite a few girls who have premarital sex and get pregnant out of wedlock in real life. According to the statistics of premarital examinations in an obstetrics and gynecology hospital, the phenomenon of premarital sex has reached a surprising level; many girls become pregnant out of wedlock, which seriously affects their physical and mental health. Why does the phenomenon of having sex before marriage and becoming pregnant before marriage become an objective and realistic problem?

Someone conducted a survey on girls who became pregnant before marriage and underwent artificial abortion and found that those who have premarital sex mainly have the following typical psychology:

The psychology of passionate love: Two people have gone from first love to passionate love, and their relationship is like a glue. One day without seeing each other feels like three autumns apart.

Love reaches a fever pitch, and once each other is committed, sex ensues. Although this kind of girl feels shy about having an abortion, she does not feel empty or depressed. She even thinks that this is a selfless dedication to her boyfriend.

Catering psychology: These girls believe that their boyfriends have better conditions than themselves in all aspects. When their boyfriends make sexual demands, they will silently agree and cater to them because they are afraid of losing them.

Possessive psychology: This type of girl thinks that her boyfriend is good, and at the same time, other girls are competitive with her. In order not to lose in the competition, they have sex, creating a fait accompli and achieving the purpose of possession.

Cover-up mentality: They often have sex with their boyfriends under forced circumstances. When their boyfriend makes a sexual request, they don't want to do it from the bottom of their hearts, but they can't resist it and just do it.

Lucky mentality: After having sex for the first time, most people have a nervous fear of getting pregnant. But as time went by, I found that nothing happened, and I got lucky. As a result, she got pregnant.

Submission mentality: These girls are often coerced and controlled by men when they ask for help from men in solving difficulties such as recruiting workers. Although they are not willing in their hearts, they still have sex with humiliation.

Curiosity: As the level of sex hormones in the body increases, girls who enter puberty undergo a series of changes in their bodies, and at the same time they also become curious about sex. These girls have sex out of curiosity.

Rebellious psychology: The marriage of these girls is often blocked by their families, relatives, friends, and organizations, who are not allowed to interact with their sweethearts, so they develop a rebellious mentality and have sexual intercourse.

Indifferent psychology: These girls were influenced by Western sexual liberation and had an indifferent attitude towards premarital sex, so they got out of hand.

Sexual awakening in advance: Adolescent girls develop a vague sense of sexiness and like to make friends with the opposite sex. The increase in sexual scenes in film and television dramas, rich youth communication, and complicated social influence have made their sexual awakening like childhood fantasies advance. A blowing kiss from a lover on the screen, an amorous gesture in a illustrated magazine, and a nuanced sexual scene in a novel. Descriptions, an intimate action in the park... will naturally arouse the attention and thinking of girls in the sexual confusion period, arousing their desire to make friends with the opposite sex and vague sexual impulses. Their social experience is not rich, their exposure to the world is shallow, and it is difficult for them to control their emotions. It is easy for them to fall in love and be unable to extricate themselves, or even make a mistake and regret it for eternity.

Adolescence is also called the sexual danger period by psychologists. In order to prevent and reduce the occurrence of premarital sex and unmarried pregnancy, appropriate positive sex education on sexual physiology, sexual psychology and sexual morality must be provided to teenagers. For adolescent girls, parents and teachers must not simply or crudely interfere with their social interactions. They must provide positive education and correct guidance to help them establish a correct view of the opposite sex, and teach them not to indulge in the blind pursuit of the opposite sex and waste their learning years. Waste precious youth.

Regarding the hugging and kissing scenes in movies and TV shows and in parks, the sexual descriptions in novels, and the sexy photos and portraits in illustrated magazines, it is necessary to enhance their immunity, cultivate a correct aesthetic consciousness, and help them extract the essence and discard the dross. Girls should cherish, respect, love, and strengthen themselves when in contact with the opposite sex, firmly build up psychological defense, eliminate distracting thoughts, and devote themselves to learning energetically.

Once premarital sex and unmarried pregnancy occur, parents, schools, and units must use correct education and help methods. They must not discriminate, ridicule, ridicule, or scold them, and avoid increasing their mental trauma; they must respect their personality and Advise them to learn lessons from the perspective of love, help and compassion. Medical staff must establish good medical ethics and have a compassionate attitude of treating illnesses and saving people and being kind to others. Only when the entire society is mobilized can we reduce and eliminate the abnormal phenomena of premarital sex and unmarried pregnancy, enable teenagers to successfully pass through the dangerous period of adolescence, and enable their bodies and minds to develop and grow healthily.