Before getting married, both men and women should go to the hospital to receive sexual health inquiries to find out whether they have any diseases and whether they have healthy sexual psychology. In view of the fact that some contents cannot be ascertained in the hospital in the short term, and there are very few such consulting agencies in China, lovers must learn some sexual knowledge on their own during the relationship, pay more attention to the other party, and both parties should also be honest with each other.

Does not talking about "sex" before marriage make your sex life disharmonious after marriage?

Everyone's sexual desire intensity is different. If a person with a strong sexual desire chooses a person with a low sexual desire, it will be difficult to have a harmonious sexual life after marriage. How to learn about the other party's situation? The only way is for both parties to truly tell each other their situations. The intensity of sexual desire is divided into two levels: the first level is the degree of physical sexual strength.

After a large number of investigations, American sexologist Jin Xi found that the earlier puberty (based on the first menstrual nocturnal emission) begins, the stronger a person's lifelong sexual ability, which is manifested in high frequency of sexual life and more continuous life. This finding applies to 85% of people. Male sexual ability is at its strongest between the ages of 18 and 25, and then gradually and irreversibly declines, by about half every 10 years. Women's sexual ability is strongest between the ages of 35 and 45, and then begins to decline, but the rate of decline is slower than that of men of the same age.

A person's sexual psychology is also a reflection of the intensity of his sexual desire. Men and women who have embraced new culture and new ideas since childhood, are willing and good at discovering fun and romance in sexual life, have strong ability to coordinate sexual life with their spouses, and have rich sexual psychology. People who live in an ignorant and closed environment often develop sexual and psychological prejudices and obstacles.

Men with lower educational levels ignore the communication of sexual feelings. If a woman with a positive sexual attitude and high requirements for psychological romantic feelings marries him, she will think that he is too "rude" and "impersonal", and the man will also I think she is too "slutty" and "has too many chores". On the contrary, if a sexually conservative woman marries a man with a positive sexual attitude, she will feel that the man is "destroying" her, and the man will feel that the woman is a puppet and that her sex life is boring.

The older a person is, the lower their sexual ability is. Therefore, from a sexual perspective, it is generally believed that young and middle-aged people with strong sexual desire and many sexual requirements are not suitable for marrying older people. Generally, the age difference between the two parties should not be greater than 15 years.

The sexual life of remarried elderly people is mainly to satisfy the sexual desire for contact and touch, so the sexual intercourse ability is irrelevant. However, if an individual man has a strong sexual ability, he must choose a woman whose sexual ability is similar to his own, preferably under 60 years old, because the vaginal secretion function of women over 60 years old is already relatively poor.

It is not suitable for two people who are too obese to get married, because overweight people may cause joint degeneration due to overweight, which may cause difficulty in choosing the right position for sexual intercourse and other inconveniences.

What you need to know about gender education before marriage

Why should sex education be conducted in schools and not at home? Judging from "Bai Hu Tong", this issue was also raised at the imperial meeting. "Bai Hu Tong" recorded it, and the original text explained: "Why does the father not teach his son by himself? It is also a waste of time. He also teaches it. The Tao should explain the changes of Yin and Yang couples, and it cannot be taught by father and son. "It means that a father cannot teach his son, it is disrespectful and unserious."

In the Eastern Han Dynasty, sex education was made a compulsory course in schools for aristocratic children. This shows that people at that time were still quite open-minded about sex and paid great attention to the study of sexual issues. Let’s take a look at the gender knowledge you need to know before marriage:

Regarding the prevention of male infertility, the most important part is premarital sex education. my country's Marriage Law clearly stipulates: "Direct blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations, those with physical defects that prevent them from having sex, and those suffering from syphilis, gonorrhea and other sexually transmitted diseases, leprosy, mental illness, etc. cannot get married without being cured." The Marriage Law is a law that ensures the normal union of young men and women, the establishment of a happy family, and the quality of childbirth. It must be carefully studied and implemented.

Premarital health examination is of great significance to ensure the married life and childbearing of both men and women. Premarital examination includes general examination of the whole body, examination of reproductive organs and necessary laboratory examinations. In order to promptly detect defects in the development of reproductive organs or sexual dysfunction, it is very important to prevent male infertility.

Inbreeding is closely related to the occurrence and continuation of genetic diseases and should be avoided. It is necessary to actively prevent various acute and chronic infectious diseases, such as mumps, which can be complicated by orchitis, causing testicular atrophy and affecting spermatogenesis. For unexplained enlargement, hardness, unevenness, pain, etc. of the testicles, you should check them in time once you notice them. Workers who stand for a long time, such as teachers, may develop varicocele, which affects testicular metabolism and reduces the number and quality of sperm. Therefore, occupations prone to varicocele should increase the amount of exercise and reduce standing postures. This is also A measure to prevent male infertility.

In addition, personnel who are often exposed to radioactive materials, work in high-temperature environments, and are exposed to a lot of poisons should pay attention to protection, because the testicles are very sensitive to radiation, high temperatures, and poisons.

Sexual life is also closely related to fertility. If impotence, premature ejaculation, abnormal ejaculation and other phenomena occur during sexual life, they should not complain to each other, but should treat it correctly with a scientific attitude. Under the guidance of a doctor, the couple should work together , the vast majority can be cured.