Newlyweds must know three common senses about sex and 4 sex techniques they can boldly try
The bridal night is something people long for, and it can only be had once in a lifetime. However, many young friends lack sexual knowledge, which ends up making both of them very embarrassed. Newlyweds must master some sexual skills. Only in this way can you fully enjoy the good time.
Three things that newlyweds must know about sex
1. Does the wife want to see her face on the wedding night?
There is a relatively thin layer of mucous membrane at the female vaginal opening, called the hymen. The membrane contains blood vessels and nerves. There is a small hole in the center of the membrane. The diameter of the male penis is generally larger than the diameter of the hole. Therefore, the hymen will rupture during first sexual intercourse and a small amount of blood will flow out. , called "seeing red". However, strenuous exercise such as physical labor and sports activities may cause the hymen to rupture beforehand. Therefore, wives may not always "see red" on their wedding night.
After the hymen ruptures, redness and swelling will appear around the slit, and there may be small black clotted blood clots. Generally, it will be gradually absorbed and subsided after 2 to 3 days. If you encounter this phenomenon, it is best to wait 2 to 3 days after the first sexual intercourse before having sexual intercourse again. to prevent wound inflammation. If there is a lot of bleeding when the hymen ruptures, you should seek emergency medical treatment to avoid accidents. Do not delay treatment for fear of ridicule. During the first sexual intercourse, the man may ejaculate prematurely or fail to have sexual intercourse due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement. There is no need to worry about this phenomenon. As sexual knowledge and experience increase after marriage, and both parties coordinate and cooperate, the problem will gradually be solved. of.
2. It is not advisable to get pregnant while traveling and getting married
First, the couple is too tired and nervous during the journey, does not get enough rest, and lacks sleep. In addition, in order to arrange the wedding, the man consumes too much physical strength and potential, and the quality of the sperm is relatively poor. Pregnancy at this time is not eugenic.
Second, life during travel is irregular and food and accommodation are not guaranteed. Neither pregnant women nor their fetuses receive the comfortable environment and adequate nutrition they deserve.
Third, pregnant women are physically weak and are prone to colds and other diseases during travel, which is extremely detrimental to the growth and development of the fetus.
Fourth, it is difficult to ensure hygiene during pregnancy during travel. In addition, at the beginning of marriage, it is difficult to control the passionate emotions and frequent sexual life. Pregnancy at this time has adverse stimulation to the fetus, which can easily cause miscarriage. In severe cases, it can lead to secondary infertility or other gynecological diseases.
Therefore, newlyweds should take contraceptive measures during travel and it is best not to get pregnant. Once you find out you are pregnant, you should stop traveling and go home to rest as soon as possible.
3. How long after marriage is the best time to get pregnant
According to experts, the best fertile period after marriage is three months after marriage, because at this time both men and women have initially adapted to sexual life and gradually become harmonious, the fatigue of newlyweds has also disappeared, and when both couples feel energetic, When you are full of energy and have strong sexual requirements, it means that you have reached the climax of your biological rhythm. This is the appropriate period to conceive a healthy and smart child. If you can still choose the spring period from February to May, when flowers are blooming and nature is full of spring. During pregnancy, it is easier to meet the physiological needs of pregnant women and fetuses. When giving birth in winter, the mother can get a better rest, so that there is sufficient milk to nurture the baby. This is undoubtedly a good opportunity for eugenics and nurturing.
Newlyweds can boldly try 4 sex techniques
1. Ice cream cone
Oral sex is of course a more exciting option, especially the "69 style" where both parties can stimulate each other, but have you tried other methods? For example, you can wrap his baby in ice cream, make it look like an ice cream cone, and then let her taste it slowly. How's it going? Not bad, right? Maybe there will be a special ingredient as a reward at the end. In the scorching summer, this is a great way to cool down. But be careful not to eat too quickly and bite his "lifeblood".
2. Take off your clothes
How you took off her clothes before each session, whether it was a quickie or an extremely rough tear. If that's the case, sometimes you may find it irritating, but more often than not, you'll find it disgusting. In order to effectively slow down the speed of taking off your clothes, it is recommended that you try the following methods. Bind his hands, and then let him use his mouth and tongue to slowly peel off and roll off her clothes. While taking them off, you might as well stimulate her sensitive areas. If there is music to accompany it, it will be the icing on the cake. Be careful not to dress her in too many or complicated clothes, otherwise his mouth will be swollen if he spends five hours on it.
3. The bite of love
Have you ever bit her (him) when you were too excited to control yourself? In fact, many ethnic groups have the habit of leaving bite marks on their lovers. Nowadays, some ethnic minorities in Yunnan still have the custom of "love bite". Pain can cause excitement to a certain extent. You can try leaving rows of small tooth marks on each other's body, on the shoulders, waist, or thighs, but you should not touch the other party too much, and see who leaves the tooth marks longer. long. Remember not to bite the other person in pain, otherwise it will be counterproductive.
4. Mine detector
The distribution of human tactile nerve endings is very shallow, while the distribution of pain sensation is slightly deeper, so the sensitivity is slightly lower. In contrast, the density of tactile nerve endings in the erogenous zone is greater, and the response is more sensitive. If you slowly slide a feather over her skin, her reaction will reveal where her erogenous zones are. The small feather is more sensitive than a mine detector. Now that I know where her erogenous zones are, I can save the time by not having to teach her.





