Love me, but I have an affair with her. Enya made three appointments with me and finally met. Eun-ah is beautiful, and she shines even when she's angrily complaining about her misfortune. She was in pain because something unexpected happened to her that she never dreamed of.

A few days ago, Enya received a strange phone call. A girl asked her twice in succession: "Do you think your husband loves you?" Enya was confused and didn't know how to answer, but the other party said : "Your husband and I have been getting along for more than a year. After much deliberation, I still think I should tell you, so as not to keep you in the dark and be fooled by him..." Enya felt like gunpowder had been stuffed into his heart when he heard this, and he immediately became angry. I want to explode, I want to ask more questions, but the phone has been hung up.

Although Enya has received the marriage certificate, she lives in her parents’ home temporarily in compliance with her mother’s wishes. She wants to wait until the wedding banquet is held before fully appreciating the sweetness of the bridal chamber, so she doesn’t go to the bridal chamber often and leaves her husband alone there.” Stay behind." Thinking that the new person in their new home was not her, but someone else got there first, she wished she could fly over and ask her husband to find out.

The husband was very surprised when he saw his beloved wife acting abnormally. His expression changed when his wife asked, "Who are you fooling around with?" "Oh, that's the secretary in my office. She's pestering me a lot, but I'm not in the mood." The husband teased, pretending to be relaxed.

Enya immediately rummaged through the boxes and cabinets to see if there were any clues. When she picked up a few long hairs and a hairpin that was not hers under the pillow, her husband became alarmed. With little resistance, he told the truth without wanting to deny it anymore, because he always believed that he loved Enya deeply, and the only way to avoid humiliating her was to confess to her at this moment.

When Enya heard that he admitted to having an affair with someone else, he threw the bedside lamp and the vase on the table. She must ask: Who is she? How long have they been together? Why would such an incredible thing happen?

Should I still marry him

The husband is a company manager, and the girl is the secretary in his office. She is like a little tigress, always eager to capture him. As for why that happened, the husband knew very well. It was not because he liked her, let alone loved her, but because he was lonely...

Or was it too easy? He actually couldn't figure it out, but one thing he could prove was that after having sex with her occasionally, he broke off with her several times but never ended it.

This time, he made up his mind to cut off contact with her, and no matter how tempted she was, he would not look back. As she spoke, her husband found a "coercive" letter she had written to him, in which she cursed and insulted him to prove her sincerity. The husband said: "That phone call was her last resort. She wanted to bring about a decisive blow, and no one could live a peaceful life..."

The words have come to this point, and the evidence is all there. It doesn't matter if the wife doesn't believe it. But she was still angry: If a fly doesn't bite a seamless egg, how can you be innocent? With this great doubt and pain, she asked several close friends what she should do. Most of my friends said that what kind of husband would want him to do? After dividing the property, they would throw him away.

When Enya came to me for consultation, after explaining the whole story, she still said this: Do I still want to marry him?

Unexpected things are still expected

Before answering Enya’s question, I asked her to think about whether she loved him and whether she knew for sure that he loved her too. Enya confirmed that they were in love, at least before the incident.

Since we are two people in love, there is no need to be led by an unexpected event. The first thing to do is to try to understand why this "accident" happened and the psychological dynamics of the accident. Although this incident has passed, if you cannot truly understand its significance, it will be difficult to prevent it from happening again in the future. It is one thing to gather, disperse, and reunite, but it is another to understand and digest the essence of events. What we can do is to find out the rules of events from the development of the situation in order to respond to and prevent them.

There are many reasons for the deterioration of the relationship between husband and wife, but sex is a major reason. They are a legal couple, and it is natural for them to have sexual intercourse. So, do they have problems with sexual coordination?

After I asked, Enya answered frankly: "There is a problem!" Their "sex" was frustrating: the husband always completed the task too early, but at this time Enya was like a flower. The flowers that were about to bloom were suddenly uprooted, and their feelings of loss and frustration were beyond words. This kind of depressing thing has happened many times. Enya no longer hopes for sex because she is afraid of disappointment. She no longer blooms and endures it numbly, wishing that he would go faster. From the moment they confirmed their relationship to receiving their marriage certificate, their sexual relationship was basically in this state.

This sexual relationship is obviously disharmonious and regrettable, but they are still married, which shows that their relationship is still relatively stable. Enya didn't understand why there was sexual disharmony between their loving couple, but it was normal for him to be with girls outside. Otherwise, why would she be pestering him?

This issue is the key to the problems in their marriage, and exploring this issue involves a variety of factors, the most important of which is psychological factors.

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