All along, what men need is understanding. If you understand him, you love him. What women need is care and attention. Men often quarrel because women don't understand him, and women are dissatisfied because men are busy with their careers and neglect to take care of themselves.

Men’s innate protective desire and a bit of machismo lead men to like to gain women’s admiration, respect and approval by helping others.

The difference is

The man proposes a plan and orders the woman to do it. The man thinks this is love. But it caused the woman to feel disgusted. She felt that she didn't care about her status and didn't love her.

When women order men, they think it is their love for men. But as a result of the man's plan, the man felt that he was disrespected and did not trust him.

So: Men need respect, women need care

When a woman is angry, she is hinting to you that she needs your care and understanding at this time.

When a man is confused, no matter what state he is in, he is telling you that I need your respect and trust.

The basic pattern of quarrels

Women are unhappy because of some of the behavior of men. Men start to explain that they think women will make a fuss over the slightest thing. In the process, women will start nagging non-stop to convince men that what they are doing is wrong. Later, women will become even more angry because of men's impatience, and men will think that women really make a fuss out of molehills. At this time, women think that her anger has nothing to do with the matter itself and has a lot to do with the man's attitude in the quarrel.

After the quarrel, both people refused to give in. If the man understood the woman more and the woman listened more to the man's thoughts at this time, maybe things would not develop so badly.