Why do you want to possess other people’s wives?

In a man’s mind: His wife is always the best for others, and his children are his best! This is what men call the wife complex. The daughter-in-law who always compares herself with others is obsessed with her and has a soft spot for her!

Man A, over thirty years old, has a successful career. Logically speaking, it was time to start thinking about marriage, but he just didn't want to. When asked why, the answer was: "I have no feelings for all the girls." Either I thought they were frivolous and pretentious, or I thought they were pretentious and meaningless. He said that these girls would take off their clothes and get into his arms, and he would not have any physical reaction. Asked if he had any sexual problems, the answer was: No. And when you see some gentle, thoughtful, married women, even if you are just across the street, your heart will be filled with excitement. Therefore, in the past ten years, there has been no love.

Man B has been married for two years, and his beloved wife is full of complaints. When he is angry and happy, he always closes his eyes tightly and does not know how to appreciate the joyful face. What's more, he once shouted out the names of his sister-in-law and colleagues. The beloved wife denounced her harshly, and the cold war began, and the man avoided her.

Man C, who has been married for less than seven years, is already itchy. The wives of wives, sisters and friends, and the wives of brothers and friends all consider them better than their own wives. So I look forward to the ambiguity and fantasize about another taste. They began to communicate closely, creating opportunities that could be exploited. There are a few hints. Although I have been rejected, I am still persevering and expect to gain something.

The three men above have different symptoms, but they have the same disease. Miss you and show you? Seeking novelty and difference? Or do you want to see the best? In fact, this is just a wife complex. What is the wife complex? Emotional experts explain that a man's feeling for his lover is getting weaker and weaker, and his interest in other people's wives is getting stronger and stronger. What is the reason for this? In fact, this is psychological factors at play.

Differences in perspective make men feel that their wives are always someone else’s good. For his wife, the passing time has slowly worn away the passion of the past. The advantages that once filled her body gradually lost their color in a pair of eyes that stared closely at it. And because of the compatibility of the dynasty and the dynasty, the mottled spots that were once invisible are highlighted. Gradually, my wife, who was full of advantages, became full of shortcomings. As for other people's wives, because you are only looking from afar, all you see are the advantages. Comparing the two, one's own wife is getting worse and worse, while other people's wives are getting better and better. This makes some men feel less and less for their wives and appreciate other people's wives more and more.

Actually, this is just a question of far-sightedness and short-sightedness. Other people's wives, who see all their advantages in your eyes, also have many shortcomings in her husband's eyes. There are no shortcomings in many marriages. What is short is that you do not have the mentality and eyes to appreciate marriage. For your wife, you should discover her beauty and magnify her beauty. Didn't someone say that life does not lack beauty, but discovery.